"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Anyone likes Jordan Peterson latest book?

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Anyone who can kick a drug habit and get this far out of his comfort zone is ok with me

He’s got some flaws when it comes to dealing with social connections and getting into a good community. He’s got some good advise but take it with a grain of salt bro, for how to get decent innergame, some of his stuff can work.
 

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I think he peaked during the 2015-2018 period. Particularly his lectures at Toronto/Harvard as a professor. He had some good podcasts too during that time.

I don't care much for him now, especially his current body of work and presentation. He flew too close to the Sun like many famous people do.
 

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Anyone who can kick a drug habit and get this far out of his comfort zone is ok with me
Jordan is a hack and reminds you that in the end, he's just another canadian retard professor that got famous simply cause he said no to a bit of progressive talk.
 
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