"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Anyone know wnay good site for hight quality clothes for cheap?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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OzyBoy

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I have heard of people going through charity clothing bins and getting stuff for free. :nono:
 

BlakeW5

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www.bluefly.com is alright.

It has some of the higher end clothes, and brands you may not be aware of, at discounted prices.
 

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I shop Hugo Boss (my favorite), Club Monaco, and French Connection.

Stick with actually going to the boutiques to get your clothes. The reason why is because they have the best selection and newest styles.

For example, I checked out Nordstroms Hugo Boss collection, it is quite limited in selection.

The key is to find out when the boutiques have their sales. They usually hold sales after the season is 1/2 way to 3/4 over. If your size is common (as in, not small) then you will definitely be able to find something in your size. The Club Monaco sales rack is a gem, as you usually find clothes discounted heavily. French Connection is the same.

Hugo Boss (at least the Chicago one) has ridiculous sales when the season is almost over (40% or so).

On the other hand, you wear a hard to find size, like small for shirts, or 31 pants for Hugo Boss, then you are better off just paying full price, because by the time the sales come, your size will be gone.

Also - be very *picky* when it comes to buying designer clothes. Many of their clothes look just like their cheaper counterparts at say Gap. If that's the case, you are better off just buying the cheaper knock-off.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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