"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

anyone know how to fly an airplane?

The August Sky

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 22, 2008
Messages
28
Reaction score
1
Location
BFE Pennsylvania
ok here is what happened,,

i have a girl coming to see me, she was supposed to get here yesterday at 430 from the midwest...but theyre in the storm circle. http://www.weather.com/newscenter/stormwatch/?from=hp_news and its 20 degrees there with a windchill of 4. its really lovely over there, let me tell you.

her plane was cancelled and i live in pa. she tried to get her plane rerouted to a city within 150 miles of me cause i said thats how far id drive to get her....she has ALL my christmas presents with her and her luggage for TWO weeks. shes not real high maintenance but is definitely a girl...

i need to know what the prognosis is for her flight arriving here in pa from iowa.


original flight path was iowa to o'hare in chi town, then to my town : )


whats gonna happen guise?
 
Last edited by a moderator:

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

The August Sky

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 22, 2008
Messages
28
Reaction score
1
Location
BFE Pennsylvania
ok here is what happened,,

i have a girl coming to see me, she was supposed to get here yesterday at 430 from the midwest...but theyre in the storm circle. http://www.weather.com/newscenter/stormwatch/?from=hp_news and its 20 degrees there with a windchill of 4. its really lovely, let me tell you.

her plane was cancelled and i live in pa. she tried to get her plane rerouted to a city within 150 miles of me cause i said thats how far id drive to get her....she has ALL my christmas presents with her and her luggage for TWO weeks. shes not real high maintenance but is definitely a girl...

i need to know what the prognosis is for her flight arriving here in pa from iowa. considering wind conditions, ice build up et cetera.

original flight path was iowa to o'hare in chi town, then to my town : )


whats gonna happen guise?
 

The August Sky

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 22, 2008
Messages
28
Reaction score
1
Location
BFE Pennsylvania
EDIT- ive also never met this girl before, i have been talking to her tho for 8 years on the phone. i met her in a yahoo chat room in the year 2000. we were both 14, and just kept talking. its her first trip here to see me, and this whole plan is going to ****...i had plans for a limo for dinner and to take her shopping and buy her a dress, make it nice for her...and its all gone to ****. This storm is being an *******, fk me.
 

speakeasy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 4, 2006
Messages
2,776
Reaction score
77
Chicago was completely messed up with recent storms. I came within a hair of booking a flight on United Airlines on the 23rd but instead flew Southwest with a connection in Phoenix. Man am I glad I did, because I'd have spent 2 days sleeping the airport.

Nobody here can tell you what will happen to her flight, call the airline.
 

speakeasy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 4, 2006
Messages
2,776
Reaction score
77
Wow. Just wow dude. The missed flight is the least of your problems.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Magma

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 13, 2007
Messages
464
Reaction score
24
Location
North Coast
The August Sky said:
EDIT- ive also never met this girl before, i have been talking to her tho for 8 years on the phone. i met her in a yahoo chat room in the year 2000. we were both 14, and just kept talking. its her first trip here to see me, and this whole plan is going to ****...i had plans for a limo for dinner and to take her shopping and buy her a dress, make it nice for her...and its all gone to ****. This storm is being an *******, fk me.

I am.......speechless.
 
Top