"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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anyone know good book/info on bodylanguage and voice coaching?

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these two areas i feel i need to improve upon the most, i did a google search and went to my local bookstore...a lot of possibilities...is there any book/info on seduction bodylanguage and voice that anyone can recommend based on good experience?

thanks so much
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

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Do Not

DO NOT buy books on body language. There is plenty of material out there for free, on how to walk, and talk, and generally exhibit alpha, but it will do nothing but waste your time to read this crap.

I can't give you advice on voice.

As far as body language goes, go rent some movies, anything with very strong masculine characters. Go one step further, go to a club, take a look at how the actual "alphas" act. Emulate, practice, and incorporate.

If you can't do this on your own, take an acting class. Whatever you do though, don't actually spend money on books about body language, it's a waste of time.


-E.Nigma
 

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Sometime ago I became interested in body language, including that practiced between the sexes. Like open and closed body postures. Folded arms are a closed body posture. Closed or open legs too. Open legs can be a sign of inviting sex (though I am in all cases referring here to fully clothed situations). Closed legs and tightly intertwined folded legs can be a sign of severe coyness or feeling vulnerable, in women.

What does it mean if a woman put her hands between her legs? In the cases I observed, the women put their hands high up in the upper thighs, not in a position covering the crotch, but between the thighs, almost touching the vulva area. Fingers pointing down. Legs were either intertwined or fairly close to each other but comfortably relaxed.

I have observed this in a female assistant, when I am in her office. The past week I observed it in another woman. Myself, she and another man were discussing something for about an hour. We sat in my office without any furniture between us, so she was "unprotected". She sat in this position virtually all the time. The other man has quite a domineering personality, but he is old (73). Both women are in their late 30ties, one married, one divorced.

My question is:

1. Are they instinctively "protecting" their genitals against male "intruders"?

Or, 2. "inviting" attention by pointing to it?

Or 3., nothing should be read into it?

Can anyone please tell me how to start a new thread on this forum?

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Body Language by Julius Fast. irresistible voice by Jonathan Altfeld.
 
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