"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Anyone in Weston-super-Mare or Bristol, UK?

Nicholas Hill

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Hey guys,

As most of you know, I am now single, and as a result have been hitting the pubs and clubs most weekends alone. While I can normally make friends and create social proof from thin air, it does take quite a lot of effort.

I'm looking for wingmen of any skill level around the Bristol or Weston-super-Mare area. I live in Weston-super-Mare, having recently moved here, and would be quite interested in working with one or two people to continue to up the game.

So, the best way to let me know is by PM.

Thanks guys,
Nick
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Try this site pal www.themajesticself.com , its like a UK version of this site, you'll deffo find someone there.
 
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