"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Anyone in the same boat?

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lurker

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Is there anyone out here who dosnt have a problem getting women or signals from women but is too big heading to even look at them knowing well that you still need them?. is there anyone out here who kind off snobbish?
im the kind off guy that women hate for some reason i cant figure out i could be walking on the street and a woman could look at me like i did something bad to her. this all started when i began to work-out, have an upright posture and confidence this all started a year ago.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I was told a few times years back that I was aloof etc... thing is the chicks who told me that were really into me, one who called me aloof even wrote me a letter to my house and another time secretly sent me some money when I hit hard times ( I checked the writing in the 2 letters) I think there into you but hate the power shift from them to you.
 
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