"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Anyone in the Bay Area, CA?

Cruise

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of course... milpitas? Great Mall is always good... D&B's.. yup
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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NightPUA

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Lair

Hey...I am Night...I have created an official Mystery Method Bay Area Lair....I a member of Mystery's Lounge, thus the conotations of Mystery. Mystery Method is NOT a requirment. Just bring your A game. The site is www.thesexxx.com

*Night
 

Thomas94305

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Am at Palo Alto. I go to SF often enough. Am an older DJ.. Target women 25-35. I do salsa a lot. Email me with any matches
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Impulse

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Damn what the hell happened to this board, well if anyones near the Milpitis or Stevens creek area hit me up. Probaly do some cold approaches round Great Mall or Valleyfair, going for girls round thier 18s - 20s so be the same as well. Sns FlickerFly holla. Peace
 

AC/DC

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I live in San Leandro/Hayward... kick it up in Concord every weekend, I got hookups on pretty much anything you need.

LETS DO THIS, you guys need some practice.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LOLPLZ

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19, south san jose,
aim: buzzybui
send a pm and meet somewhere and hit it up
 

Thomas94305

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Anything ever come of this? Any of you guys meet up for sarging?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Thomas94305

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Palo Alto, rsxtreme. I get to San Fran about once a week. Salsa clubs up there are good. Guy/gal ratio is better. I wanna try out the Triangle, in the Marina, recommended to me by Derik Flint in another posting.

I'm open to sarging on the peninsula/in SF, if anyone is game. Venue is important to me. Loud clubs are there for fun, not sarging, caz you can't talk. That's the appeal of the triangle.. more lounge places, and people are sociable.
 

Jason88

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hey im in the south bay, but also like SF too. My friends are fags and hardly ever go sarging. Lets do this....aim at PacBallz
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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