"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Anyone in Hong Kong?

Tesl

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I'm not expecting much, but if anyone from HK wants to grab some beers and get out there let me know.

Just moved here 2 months back from Tokyo and haven't found any decent male friends to hang out with yet..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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AAAgent

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damn how'd you get to hong kong. i'm chinese and can speak mandarin and cantonese fluently just can't read or write. I wouldn't mind finding a job in the country where my pops grew up in.

what you doing and how long you there. i might visit for vacay.
 
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