"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Anyone in Hong Kong?

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Tesl

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I'm not expecting much, but if anyone from HK wants to grab some beers and get out there let me know.

Just moved here 2 months back from Tokyo and haven't found any decent male friends to hang out with yet..
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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damn how'd you get to hong kong. i'm chinese and can speak mandarin and cantonese fluently just can't read or write. I wouldn't mind finding a job in the country where my pops grew up in.

what you doing and how long you there. i might visit for vacay.
 
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