"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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***Anyone In Here Ever Played Any Girls***

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cruise

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I did. My very first real girlfriend in fact... that's the irony... I really thought she was the one for me, just couldn't control my testosterone when she was away.

Anyways... when I graduated from high school in 2000, me and a buddy of mine took a first class plane ride to Hawaii to kick it with my cousins, who also graduated that year, for about 2 weeks. Well, because he had a grip of friends over there who were in the same grade, we got there just in time to hit so many luau's I couldn't even begin to tell you.
Got drunk, and, damn, if Hawaiian chicks aren't tempting as all hell. I go over there with the American accent, and with the rapport of my cousin, who was a captain of the football squad at that time, chicks were basically LETTING us have our way. Coming up kissing me on the cheek, smiling and introducing themselves, laughing at all the jokes, asking me about American life, everything.
Within those two weeks, I knocked up 5 different chicks, all who were some bomb ass 8's and 9's. Good times.
Then I came back home, and realized... maybe she wasn't the one lol...
 

Charm&Style

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...haha

anyone else ever played with a girls emotions...especially the ones that didnt like u to begin with but then began to like you cuz of some change..yet you juss want to return the favor back at them for what they did before.
 

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i talked to a girl once and i realized she had a hb9 sister. ALSO her personality was much better then her. so anyways i started talking to the hb9 sister and i ended up dating her while i got rid of her other sister. stayed with the hb9 until she screwed around with some other guys. i hit it though so everything is cool..
 
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