You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I hope it isn't a pyramid scam.Dongfu said:
Good point, I fixed it. No this isn't a pyramid scheme. I am now working for the person who invented the sales system that I used to create my book. The services are geared mostly toward helping retail stores and other sales related businesses have greater success.spesmilitis said:I hope it isn't a pyramid scam.
If you wanted to contact professional people, at least leave a professional message. You spelled 'hear' wrong.