"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Anyone here use magic to help them get girls?

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I started getting into magic a month ago because it's something I've always wanted to get into. After a lot of practicing I've gotten really good. So last week I went to random strangers around and I've gotten incredible reactions each time. I was waiting at the bus stop for the campus bus and I decided to approach this girl I've been eyeing for a bit. I simply went up to her with a "hi" and did my thing. After a minute of talking I asked her if she believed in magic. She said she believes in tricks, it'll take a lot for someone to convince her that magic exists.

So I improvised some tricks I knew for DJ'ing. One was where she had coins in her hand and I closed my hands over hers, and changed them into something else. Then there's the classic coin behind the ear, both were great for kino. Last one was where she was thinking of a card, and I was to flip it over in the deck. But I looked into her eyes for about 15 seconds pretending to read her mind, where I said, "I'm new to mind reading, but I know which card you picked, and that you think I'm cute." Needless to say that I got the number.

I feel a little more confident in talking to girls now, even without using magic. I have to admit that it's a great icebreaker or way to introduce yourself if you just can't go up and say "hi". Anyone else have similiar experiences? I'm definiately not gonna go up to every girl and do magic though, I don't want a reputation that it's my gimmick to get chicks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Where did you learn all these tricks? Can you show us how they're done? I've always been fascinated with magic :)
 

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yeah man i do magic, card, coin, and slieght of hand tricks.. ive just started to learn psycholological mind tricks and illusions, mind reading, and and stuff,

a combination of magic, nlp, suggestion, and kinesics you can pull of any illusion that you want to create...

so yeah man its a great way to introduce yourself as a mystical and fascinating person... you get loads of attention, and you have a the power over most people, because they allways want to know how to do it...

heres one that usually works..

1=&

2=%

3=@

4=$


now pick a simble from one to four...

heres what i think you picked..



















was it...............................no,3....@
 

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Originally posted by xiola
lol

yes
If this is a reply to catch's "magic trick" let me just tell you I picked number 2 so it doesn't work on everyone.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I picked #3 and I just tried it on a girlfriend on msn and she also picked #3. Can you explain the psychology a bit here?
 

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3 Kinda looks like a penis, so everyone picked it cause they're homo.

J/K, but I picked two.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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who wants to know the mechanics of this trick????
 

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Hi all! Can eveybody please give us some online resources/descriptions of magic tricks (like with coins, something we can also use at a club/on the street without the need of preparing)?

It´s an interesting topic, help much appreciated!!

Greetings,

milkman
 

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I just show them my magic wand.

Now you see it now you don't, now you see it now you don't.;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Magic: The Gathering?

I don't think that's a very good way to get girls.

ALTHOUGH, you could always put on your robe and wizard hat. Chicks dig that.

Robe and Wizard Hat
 

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"One was where she had coins in her hand and I closed my hands over hers, and changed them into something else."

- I mean, how can that work???
 

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ok...

magic is about , sleight of hand, miss direction ship, and miss leading people to believe what you want them to believe..... hiden agendas.......

i might as well post a whole shipment on this, but it wont, ime cooking super noodles at the moment...

heres another trick....

its another mind reading trick, and your gona read my mind now.....

you must do, and trust what i say for this to work...

you need a PEN and PAPER....

il give you a few seconds to sit up, and go get a pen and paper to see this trick...go and get them now....













just let your mind see where it takes you...


got the pen and paper????



now i want you to think of a picture.. i want you to actually sea it in your mind..


then...

i want you to keep changing your mind, and let any different ideas sail through your mind...

and when you see a picture in your mind that feels right...

draw it, on the paper...

when you draw it though,dont go over board with the detail...
keep it simple...



draw it on the paper now....






how many of you drew a......




















................. a..............sailing ship.. or boat....?????
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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