"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Anyone here use kik? Had an idea for group chat

BetterCallSaul

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I sometimes have downtime at work which is why I occasionally come here during the day. I was thinking maybe we could start a private SS group chat on kik. I already have a group available, but wanted to gauge interest levels from members here too.

The purpose of this chat group would NOT be to discuss larger issues which require some well thought out response that we typically see in discussion topics here. Instead it would be for members who might need a quick reply to give to some chick about to flake, or maintain interest levels. Maybe you need a quick one-liner to seal the deal. It's mainly the small stuff like that that this would be about.

Now I obviously am not attached to my phone 24/7. Really there might be times no one is reading the chat. It's only what members make it. If someone is available to help, great, but if not, dont get butthurt because no one responded in time.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SeymourCake

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Follow your intuition instead.
 
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