Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Anyone here Psychologist or Foreign Service Official (Diplomat)?

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I'm researching these two careers for a course of mine and I was wondering if someone with experiance in either of the two would answer a quick 9 quetion interview for me. Please add your email and name (optional) incase my teacher wants to check my sources. Thanks in advance.

Quetion:

1. Tell me about your job. Is what you do different in any way from what others in your occupation do?

2. Can you tell me about your background and how you got into the field?

3. What personal characteristics are required for someone ot be successful in your job?

4. How much job security is there for people in your field?

5. What other jobs could you do with the skills you have gained in this field?

6. What do you think the future holds for people in your occupation?

7. What are the biggest challenges in your job?

8. Are there many opportunities in your field? What should people do to get started?

9. Is there anything you would like to add? Or anything that I should have asked about? Thank you!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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PeterNorthisawesome said:
Not to be rude but I don't need that. I need someone who's actually a psychologist or diplomat, so I can compare the interview quetions with an another person I interviewed.
Those would be my answers, in extreme detail. All of your questions are answered therein.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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PeterNorthisawesome said:
Ok guess I'll have to fudge the answers. Well thanks anyway.
Actually, that link will give you the general standards for the answers you are looking for. Are you looking for answers which are exceptions?
 

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PeterNorthisawesome said:
I'm researching these two careers for a course of mine and I was wondering if someone with experiance in either of the two would answer a quick 9 quetion interview for me. Please add your email and name (optional) incase my teacher wants to check my sources. Thanks in advance.

Quetion:

1. Tell me about your job. Is what you do different in any way from what others in your occupation do?

2. Can you tell me about your background and how you got into the field?

3. What personal characteristics are required for someone ot be successful in your job?

4. How much job security is there for people in your field?

5. What other jobs could you do with the skills you have gained in this field?

6. What do you think the future holds for people in your occupation?

7. What are the biggest challenges in your job?

8. Are there many opportunities in your field? What should people do to get started?

9. Is there anything you would like to add? Or anything that I should have asked about? Thank you!
Check the State Department website and contact somebody there (Public Affairs) via email.
 
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