"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Anyone here practice a martial art called Kun Tao?

e-lie

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I live in miami and having a hard time finding a school that teaches this art any students here?:up:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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no but why dont u learn something that will actualy help u in a fight like boxing and not that jackie chan crap
 

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how do u know its crap I dont look down on any art:)
 

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DamHE said:
no but why dont u learn something that will actualy help u in a fight like boxing and not that jackie chan crap
so how does a boxer defend himself when someone tries to kick him the nuts?
 

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ready123 said:
so how does a boxer defend himself when someone tries to kick him the nuts?
Honestly, I think a good boxer can hang with a martial artist. Fists are devastating weapons when you know how to use 'em with footwork, speed, power and accuracy like a trained boxer.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I think a boxer's best asset is they're hard to hit. I have a couple buddies who got in streetfights with boxers and they kept telling me how no matter how hard they tried they couldn't hit them. Meanwhile those boxers kept punching them on the same part of their head until they couldnt fight anymore

and my question was just out of curiousity because I got a pretty strong right kick. How would a boxer defend against kicks
 
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