"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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anyone here paint or color there nails black?

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This may sounf funny. I remember awhile back I was talking to my friend Charles and he is big time into Metal music. I remember working with him one day and I noticed his nails were painted black. So I asked his whats up with that? and he told me chicks dig it. I was like really? and he explained that chicks think its hot or something. He then said hey you should try it? I said maybe. So about a week later I got balls and colored my thumb nail black with a permanet marker lol. I actually didnt mind it lol.

So my question is does this show confedence to the ladies? and does anyone here do it? and what do you guys think about coloring your finger nails black?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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killbill said:
This may sounf funny. I remember awhile back I was talking to my friend Charles and he is big time into Metal music. I remember working with him one day and I noticed his nails were painted black. So I asked his whats up with that? and he told me chicks dig it. I was like really? and he explained that chicks think its hot or something. He then said hey you should try it? I said maybe. So about a week later I got balls and colored my thumb nail black with a permanet marker lol. I actually didnt mind it lol.

So my question is does this show confedence to the ladies? and does anyone here do it? and what do you guys think about coloring your finger nails black?
As a Metaller, and having been in the Metal and Goth(I don't consider myself a Goth, I just frequent the scene) scene for a long time, I can tell you I see lots of guys with their nails painted black who often have hot p*ssy on their arms...so yes, chix definitely dig it(especially the Metal/Goth/Punk/Emo chix). But even the women who don't like it, will look past it, if you have the right game with them..it's not your appearance that matters to women, it's your GAME that matters(for one such example out of many, refer to Mystery's YouTube scene with that chick who disses his whole look, including his "black" nails, mind you)...if you wanna land hot p*ssy of any kind, focus on THAT. Remember, as much as women might say looks matter, trust me, they are full of sh*t, they don't. Women are notorious for doing the opposite of what they say. Game these b*tches the right way, and you're in...most of the time.

As far as confidence goes, painting your nails black has nothing to do with it. Well, I guess you can say in a sense it does, because anyone who chooses to look "different" or "exotic", has the confidence to do so without giving a f*ck what anyone thinks, and that my friend is what's attractive to women. It's all about the "bite me, flip 'em the finger, I don't give a f*ck what you think" attitude.
 
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Uhh Chicks think it's hot.. That's why you do it?

They also think gay guys kissing is hot.
 

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As a Metaller, and having been in the Metal and Goth(I don't consider myself a Goth, I just frequent the scene) scene for a long time, I can tell you I see lots of guys with their nails painted black who often have hot p*ssy on their arms...so yes, chix definitely dig it(especially the Metal/Goth/Punk/Emo chix). But even the women who don't like it, will look past it, if you have the right game with them..it's not your appearance that matters to women, it's your GAME that matters(for one such example out of many, refer to Mystery's YouTube scene with that chick who disses his whole look, including his "black" nails, mind you)...if you wanna land hot p*ssy of any kind, focus on THAT. Remember, as much as women might say looks matter, trust me, they are full of sh*t, they don't. Women are notorious for doing the opposite of what they say. Game these b*tches the right way, and you're in...most of the time.

As far as confidence goes, painting your nails black has nothing to do with it. Well, I guess you can say in a sense it does, because anyone who chooses to look "different" or "exotic", has the confidence to do so without giving a f*ck what anyone thinks, and that my friend is what's attractive to women. It's all about the "bite me, flip 'em the finger, I don't give a f*ck what you think" attitude.
thanks man.:up:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The only good thing about painting your nails black is it would be good for peacocking, just look at Mystery. But you'd have to have A LOT OF GAME to backup the black nails.
 

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The only good thing about painting your nails black is it would be good for peacocking, just look at Mystery. But you'd have to have A LOT OF GAME to backup the black nails.
This is true, although I think it helps somewhat to paint first rather than wait till your game gets to that point. When I used to wear really strange flashy sh¡t, I noticed that it forced my personality to "keep up" with my out-ward appearance and gave me a real boost.

I say give it a try. I occasionally paint my nails with clear polish, but it's to keep me from biting them.

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Don't paint your nails black, man. There's only a small minority of women who actually like it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i used to do it. not because i was copying MrE. but because i was into the emo/punk scene a year or two ago. i loved it, and certain chicks were intrigued. 'm thinking i might do it again.

besides i didn't know who mystery was that time anyways.
 

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sounds pretty *****-ish to me.

What do I now, I shave my armpits because I think body hair is disgusting. My girlfriend deals with it, so I suppose that it wouldn't matter.

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killbill said:
This may sounf funny. I remember awhile back I was talking to my friend Charles and he is big time into Metal music. I remember working with him one day and I noticed his nails were painted black. So I asked his whats up with that? and he told me chicks dig it. I was like really? and he explained that chicks think its hot or something. He then said hey you should try it? I said maybe. So about a week later I got balls and colored my thumb nail black with a permanet marker lol. I actually didnt mind it lol.

So my question is does this show confedence to the ladies? and does anyone here do it? and what do you guys think about coloring your finger nails black?
If you are the gothic type you could probably pull it off otherwise i would stay away from it otherwise you would look stupid. Thats my thought.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I appreciate everyones opinions, thanks guys.
 

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+1 for everyone who said don't worry if girls like it. Just worry about if you like it.
 

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seanchai said:
EDIT: Out-war is censored? Why?
Hahaha, wow you're right. Some of the mods here truly must be deranged. This board has some of the most random censoring.....
 

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Black nails on dude, sign on a worthless human being. I don't know why people do it, but whatever issues they have, painting your goddamn finger nails aren't going to change a thing besides the color of your nails.

Btw, I heard if you color your whole body in permanent marker girls will dig it.
 

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looks gay to me. Unless you are a super villian or have a distinct reason for doing it, its just another metro sexual fad. Same as a guy who gets a generic tattoo, its the male version of a tramp stamp. Create the adventure in your life. I find people who try to be like other people, incredibly boring. Its the equivalent of wearing tommy hilfiger, getting a little dog, tattooing a chinese character to your arm or wearing Michael Jordan Nike Airs... You become a wannabe and everyone knows it.

Be into your own scene and set the trend.
I wore my nike air shoes to my second cousins wedding and people thought that they were dress shoes.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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