"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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haeveingridseyn

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Mixed Martial Art is the one of the few sports that i'm really into.

from UFC to K-1 I just cant get enough of these actions

i assume u guys only watch UFC but Pride FC was the **** unfortunely now it's owned by UFC and it's pretty much GONE... T.T

anyway, my favourite martial artist would be CROCOP and the reason why i like him so much is that he always evolve (from K-1 to Pride FC and now UFC) and work his way through. and he always reminds me of Vegita who is really strong and has charisma but not quite strong enough to be the TOP and yet always thrive to be one .
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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speakeasy

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haeveingridseyn said:
Mixed Martial Art is the one of the few sports that i'm really into.

from UFC to K-1 I just cant get enough of these actions

i assume u guys only watch UFC but Pride FC was the **** unfortunely now it's owned by UFC and it's pretty much GONE... T.T

anyway, my favourite martial artist would be CROCOP and the reason why i like him so much is that he always evolve (from K-1 to Pride FC and now UFC) and work his way through. and he always reminds me of Vegita who is really strong and has charisma but not quite strong enough to be the TOP and yet always thrive to be one .

Why do you think Cropcop hasn't been doing so well in the UFC? I look back at his old fights and people were saying he was the second scariest guy after Fedor. But it looks like the UFC isn't working out too well for him.

My fav fighter is Anderson Silva. My most hated fighters would be a toss up between Tito Ortiz and Brock.
 

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I fought a couple times, probably will again next spring, and now I promote amateur mma events. On the remote chance that any sosuaver is located in western Kentucky, western Tennessee, or nearby, you are invited to attend our fight events. I will get you free tickets. We had almost a thousand people at our show this past weekend, and everyone I talked to had a great time.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
I fought a couple times, probably will again next spring, and now I promote amateur mma events. On the remote chance that any sosuaver is located in western Kentucky, western Tennessee, or nearby, you are invited to attend our fight events. I will get you free tickets. We had almost a thousand people at our show this past weekend, and everyone I talked to had a great time.
Did you do the one in Minglewood Hall on Friday?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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