"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Anyone here has genital warts?

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Hi everyone.
I'm now 28 years old and I recently have been diagnosed with genital warts.These warts grow on my penis shaft and in my pubic hair. I've taken lots of prescription medications and tried various home remedies but these tiny growths never stop growing on my body. I'm very stressed of them and don't want to go out or date with a woman any more. Is there any suggestion that can help me? Thanks.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Don't have sex while you're having genital warts as they can spread to your partner. And get them treated immediately. I heard that some treatments can be effective in removing genital warts, for example, freezing, burning or cutting warts off, and using wart creams. Ask your doctor.
 

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I know this disease is hard and contagious but I can't afford to get them removed surgically by freezing or burning. It costs more than $500 totally. Imiquimod and home remedies such as apple cider vinegar might work for some sufferers but these didn't help my condition.
 

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This is a sexually transmitted disease. If you have genital warts, this means you have the virus HPV and you will have it for life. Despite the treatment, HPV is still in your body and you sometimes can suffer recurring genital warts in the future. No cure for genital warts, but you can clear them by antiviral creams. Plus, avoid smoking or drinking, eat a healthy diet and consume a supplement to prevent new warts.
 

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Try an over-the-counter wart cream. Some people who have genital warts seem to have had luck with this.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This is a sexually transmitted disease. If you have genital warts, this means you have the virus HPV and you will have it for life. Despite the treatment, HPV is still in your body and you sometimes can suffer recurring genital warts in the future. No cure for genital warts, but you can clear them by antiviral creams. Plus, avoid smoking or drinking, eat a healthy diet and consume a supplement to prevent new warts.
With genital warts, I have no choice. Maybe, I will try an antiviral cream for them. I read online and find that not every wart cream works for genital warts because these are more stubborn and it's harder to treat. My friend suggests an OTC topical cream called Vidarox which has been known to effectively treat warts on the anus and genitals. So I will give it a try. Thanks.
 

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Try an over-the-counter wart cream. Some people who have genital warts seem to have had luck with this.
Thank you. Some people with genital warts also advised me to use an OTC wart cream. It costs less for home treatment, so I'm going to try Vidarox which has been suggested by my friend.
 

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Good luck. And tell me if Vidarox works for your condition. Thank you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Apple Cider Vinegar will burn off anything. You have to wet a small piece of cotton and tape it over the wart while you sleep.
ACV rules!!

I just bought the big bottle of bragg for my skin and hair. Huge difference! It balanced my skin so it's not so greasy which in turn, keeps it clean. My hair has mega volume, probably due to ph levels or something.
 

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ACV rules!!

I just bought the big bottle of bragg for my skin and hair. Huge difference! It balanced my skin so it's not so greasy which in turn, keeps it clean. My hair has mega volume, probably due to ph levels or something.
I've used it a couple yes ago, I can't remember why exactly. So are you just drinking it or actually using it as a soap/shampoo? You must be drinking cause that smell would be too much. Lol
 

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I know this disease is hard and contagious but I can't afford to get them removed surgically by freezing or burning. It costs more than $500 totally. Imiquimod and home remedies such as apple cider vinegar might work for some sufferers but these didn't help my condition.
If you are in the USA contact your nearest planned parenthood and ask if you can make an appointment with a doctor for an examination.

It's been forever since I've needed their services but, last I needed then, they provided all sorts of care to men and women at low or no cost. At the very least, they will provide you resources and referral for care.

Most people trainee they provide sexually related care for men and women. They've NEVER "just provided abortions".

Good luck
 

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I've used it a couple yes ago, I can't remember why exactly. So are you just drinking it or actually using it as a soap/shampoo? You must be drinking cause that smell would be too much. Lol
I have a spray bottle. I use ACV full strength, and it does stink for about 10 minutes or so. I air out, before rejoining humanity!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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