Anyone here finds the idea of marriage totally depressing?

[lgbs2004]

That's why you smash, bang and ride them like a rental car. Then leave them for some other sucker to "purchase".

Women are exactly like cars in every way....
Sex = Miles
Past boyfriends/husbands = previous owners.

New cars are always higher in value, better looking, in better condition and over all more fun (but more expensive). The newer the car.. usually the less previous owners

Loved the comparison. I agree 100% with you!

 

[Burroughs]

Women are exactly like cars in every way....
Sex = Miles
Past boyfriends/husbands = previous owners.

with one gigantic exception

the law makes you pay for the car....EVEN AFTER YOU GET RID OF THE CAR AND CAN NO LONGER DRIVE IT FOR 20+ YEARS going forward

 

[zinc4]

hahah this is all so shallow sounding...if you really love someone her fading looks won't really matter because you will see the person you really love as they first were when you met them...it hasn't happened to me yet, but i know it does exist...have seen several elderly couples who have it...pretty impressive really...

unfortunately, most marriages aren't like this and people marry others that they don't really deeply love or maybe just someone who they were infatuated with in the beginning stages but didn't really even know or deeply connect with them..or maybe married someone because they thought it was the right5 fit for their future financially wise and just to deal with peer pressure..list goes on...the real thing is very rare however, but it can happen..

 

[Hustlaz Ambition]

A Jay-Z+Beyonce marriage is the only way I'll ever consider it these days. Date for 10 years and the spouse making just as if not more money than you. **** giving half of my hard earned **** to some broke ass *****. But, if I do marry it will be an Asian or Latina.

 

[btownbuck2012]

I´m 25, and some of my friends are already getting married... I cannot see myself getting married, first because ,and I´m terribly sorry if sound a bad person, but I NEED to be physically attracted to the woman, otherwise I simply can´t love her.. And honestly I find that women tend to be most attractive at 19-21, I can´t feel any attraction to 25+ woman (saggy skin, out of shape, the ones who are not fat have either too much muscle or they are just anorexic) they simply let themselves go (specially if they are married)...

Second it seems a terrible prison to me, you leave your job (which is another prison) to go home and hear kids crying, a fat woman always complaining, then you just simply stop meeting new people. Not to mention that in your free time half of the programs at least, won´t be spent doing things you want, boring wife´s friends, long Sunday programs with their family you name it.
It doesn´t surprise me that half of the adults in this planet are always depressed they aren´t free! And I don´t want to become one of the zombies..

I think I want to travel, have new girlfriends, meet new people constantly etc.. And marriage simply doesn´t allow it.

Anyway if someone has a good perspective regards to marriage I would also like to hear you... every opinion is welcome.

I feel the same way. There is so much to do and see in this world, the only problem is that it takes a-lot of time and effort to reach your goals. Why any dude would get married at 25 is beyond me. Also, just when I'm starting to think that marriage or an LTR might be a good idea, i see a ridiculously hot girl I want to ****. I never want to limit myself to one woman when there is so much to sample from.

But yeah, my goal in life is to ultimately end up working in Washington, DC for a federal agency like the state department or the department of defense. With the way the economy is going right now, it's going to take a-lot of work. I don't need some chick weighing me down in a relationship. But at the same time when I have the opportunity to **** a beautiful girl, I never pass it up. I guess I'm happiest with that type of arrangement. I really enjoy sex, but I don't feel like I need to "BE" with someone. It's much more enjoyable in my opinion to chase my dream of getting out to DC than to be involved with a girl.

A-lot of dudes who are married I think do it to add value and meaning to their lives. I mean for the most part they work at these boring mundane jobs and the biggest events in their lives are things like going to church, watching their kids play little league, cheering on their hog wives at marathons, lol. I mean wtf is that **** about? I am in no way shape or form trying to get married for a long ass time, IF ever.

 

[SeymourCake]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5ocbZhRQS9I

 

[bigneil]

IMO you should only get married if you're going to have planned children with a woman who loves you to death.

Financially it's a terrible deal for men. It's like agreeing to pay a stripper every day for the rest of your life. It normally leads to less sex. You blow a fortune on the actual event and ring (why anyone would go into a marriage in debt from the wedding itself is beyond me).

Think about it. You go out and buy a house you can barely afford and some chick moves in and has your kid. Now you HAVE to go to work. If you don't, they will put you in jail, either for not paying the mortgage or for not paying child support. If the economy gets worse (it will) then what? Will she stand by your side through thick and thin? No, she'll claim that you must underwrite her current lifestyle forever and the state will agree. Then you'll realize you're a slave!

I'm 42 and have never been married. I've had steady girlfriends more and more as I've gotten older though. I don't have any regrets, but you can only play the bar scene for so long. I've been lucky enough to look young for my age but I'm not sure if when I reach 50 if I won't have a really hard time meeting people.

I've been casually dating the same girl for 15 months now and they start talking long term and kids at some point, but you can see their youth and beauty fading by the day so it's a big sacrifice. She'll end up totally unattractive some day but will be even harder to deal with and more demanding. That's when you either work through tough times together or see the divorce court demon.

"Who do you work for?"
"I work for the Government, two ex-wives and the bank - it's the American way!"
-Quote from Nowhere Man TV series (1995).

 

[twentee]

Get one that's 20-40 years younger than you, for 5 years at a time (until she gets her US citizenship and divorces you). Filipinas are best, but have a GREAT prenuptial agreement and get her to pay you at least 100k over those 5 years. it CAN be done, guys. If you'll work and invest smart, by the time you've got those 5 years in, you'll be financially set for life, there won't BE any job to wear you out or waster your time. then you can be free to find a FINE lady, for life, or just get another 5 year model. Your choice.

 

[Married Buried]

Get one that's 20-40 years younger than you, for 5 years at a time (until she gets her US citizenship and divorces you). Filipinas are best, but have a GREAT prenuptial agreement and get her to pay you at least 100k over those 5 years. it CAN be done, guys. If you'll work and invest smart, by the time you've got those 5 years in, you'll be financially set for life, there won't BE any job to wear you out or waster your time. then you can be free to find a FINE lady, for life, or just get another 5 year model. Your choice.

This is BS! When you marry a foreign chic you have to go to INTERVIEWs with IMMIGRATION and they are on the lookout for cheaters like you. You are in the system! When they catch you doing this you are sent to prison.

There is no way you are pulling this off. why keep posting it?

 

[Crazystarf]

This is BS! When you marry a foreign chic you have to go to INTERVIEWs with IMMIGRATION and they are on the lookout for cheaters like you. You are in the system! When they catch you doing this you are sent to prison.

There is no way you are pulling this off. why keep posting it?

This is implying that women aren't doing the same things towards men. She seeks out the best mate, she gets married, and when she drains the man of all his resources she divorces his ass and hops on towards the next one.

 

[Married Buried]

This is implying that women aren't doing the same things towards men. She seeks out the best mate, she gets married, and when she drains the man of all his resources she divorces his ass and hops on towards the next one.

Maybe you can pull it off ONCE but once immigration sees it's your second marriage to a foreign woman they will know it's a scam.

 

[zinc4]

Get one that's 20-40 years younger than you, for 5 years at a time (until she gets her US citizenship and divorces you). Filipinas are best, but have a GREAT prenuptial agreement and get her to pay you at least 100k over those 5 years. it CAN be done, guys. If you'll work and invest smart, by the time you've got those 5 years in, you'll be financially set for life, there won't BE any job to wear you out or waster your time. then you can be free to find a FINE lady, for life, or just get another 5 year model. Your choice.

This is really sad and pathetic sounding to me. I would rather make my life myself than using others to do so. I wouldn't even like myself anymore so what would be the point of this? Your mindset is how a very low quality woman thinks. I think i would prefer to just be homeless than to resort to this.

 

[HeadLightsOn]

with one gigantic exception

the law makes you pay for the car....EVEN AFTER YOU GET RID OF THE CAR AND CAN NO LONGER DRIVE IT FOR 20+ YEARS going forward

Unless youre smart when you start the car up at the first test drive, make sure you have an all inclusive service deal that expires when you get rid of that car. No more repairs or maintenance have to be paid for unless you still own the car.

So far this has worked for me. Ive had several used vehicles, but I dont pay for them anymore.

Its all in the fine print. As has been said before, "I love you - sign here."

 

[OzyBoy]

It doesn't sound that depressing to me.