"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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anyone here ever got fired

joe45

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have any of u guys been fired from a job-this happened to me 3x's i hate to admit-first one was tele marketing- stayed for like 2 wks and they said ah don;t think this is the right work for u , but we'll pay u, second one was at restaurant 3 days- didn;t do clean up good enough-this i thought was bogus, and thrid -2 wks-was at a grocery store doing produce=-taking the groceries out-said something about my hand eye coordination. my thoughts yea ur new right=so why don;t they give me a break if i screw up a couple of times-since i did mention i was inexperienced in all of em. seems like employers nowadays want the best of the best or something. tell u the truith i never even slack off or came late to work once. i'm not even sure why they fired me its liek they want superb work from a inexperience guy
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mr. Cardio

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take this as a message from God that you should begin looking for ways to be finanically free.
 
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