"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Anyone here do high school wrestling?

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Just curious. I tried it out for one year as a junior and got my a$$ kicked every match, but it was a good experience.

The practices were the toughest conditioning I have ever been through and wrestlers are the toughest athletes in my opinion.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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No matter what you say, wrestling is gay...literally.
 

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oakraiderz2 said:
No matter what you say, wrestling is gay...literally.
Yea sure, whatever you say. If you had to fight an athlete from any sport, a wrestler is the last person you would want to face.

Wrestling is the ONLY sport that if you let your guard down or give up for 2 seconds ONLY you will get pinned. I know, because this happened to me almost every match.

Mctwist, you are right about respect. X-Country is another tough and grueling sport that absolutely gets no respect.
 

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i do x country and track also. about the respect thing, i don't give a damn if people don't respect it, and neither should you. i do it for my own good and my health, not to win over strangers who i will never see again. and i also do it to meet chicks =P (its a bonus).
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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mahon83050 said:
Yea sure, whatever you say. If you had to fight an athlete from any sport, a wrestler is the last person you would want to face.
Yea, i respect that they can wreck sh*t and what not, however, not my cup of tea, and what i dont like=gay :rolleyes:
 

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Yea, i respect that they can wreck sh*t and what not, however, not my cup of tea, and what i dont like=gay :rolleyes:
you got your ass handed to you at the wrestling tryouts, huh? :rock:
 

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Nobody respects swimmers either. I remember the wrestling team used to call us gay... I thought that was too much. :crackup:
 

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seanchai said:
Nobody respects swimmers either. I remember the wrestling team used to call us gay... I thought that was too much. :crackup:
Swimming is another tough, grueling sport. I was never on the swim team, but I know how tiring laps can be!

I am sure the gay thing had to do with the speedos you guys had to wear, just my 2 cents.

I'll never forget my long distance h.s. track coach pointing over to the baseball players practicing and say "What they are doing is cake".
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Nobody respects swimmers either. I remember the wrestling team used to call us gay... I thought that was too much. :crackup:
yeah you guys shave your legs :cheer: j/k, I acually thought about it...I did anything to lose weight...I would not recommend laxatives however :down:
 
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