"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Anyone here achieved EXCEPTIONAL HEALTH??

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has anyone here taken the time and effort to achieve exceptional health?

things like;
- mastered nutrition and KNOWING what food really is best for you
- having an excellent exercise routine
- having exceptional energy

basically LOOKING, FEELING and BEING healthy

if exceptional health IS something you've achieved, first of all congrats!!

secondly, please share some details of your journey to excellent health

thirdly, please recommend some books to help people seeking to become exceptionally healthy

holla! :rock:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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god its taken me years to accumulate my nutrition knowledge. i've not mastered my diet yet, but i stay away from all the junk food i can. I eat ALOT of antioxidants (tea, tomatoes) and alot of omega-3 foods. I also drink a ****load of water and keep my saturated fats very low.
 

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Create Reality said:
god its taken me years to accumulate my nutrition knowledge. i've not mastered my diet yet, but i stay away from all the junk food i can. I eat ALOT of antioxidants (tea, tomatoes) and alot of omega-3 foods. I also drink a ****load of water and keep my saturated fats very low.
awesome!

do you feel a lot healthier now compared to before you started eating healthily?

any books you can recommend?
 

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stayfly said:
has anyone here taken the time and effort to achieve exceptional health?

things like;
- mastered nutrition and KNOWING what food really is best for you
- having an excellent exercise routine
- having exceptional energy

basically LOOKING, FEELING and BEING healthy

if exceptional health IS something you've achieved, first of all congrats!!

secondly, please share some details of your journey to excellent health

thirdly, please recommend some books to help people seeking to become exceptionally healthy

holla! :rock:
Just call it "healthy".

In my experience, the closer I started to behave like a "caveman", be it nutrition or physical activity, the better I started to feel.

Examples:
-quit the junk food
-quit the sugars
-eat veggies, eat meat, eat fats
-move a lot
-sit less
-exercise
-quit the stress
-quit the alarm
-go to sleep when you're tired
-wake up without an alarm
-get out of the rat race/matrix
-etc...

Check books by Frank Forencich.
 

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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stronglifts said:
Just call it "healthy".

In my experience, the closer I started to behave like a "caveman", be it nutrition or physical activity, the better I started to feel.

Examples:
-quit the junk food
-quit the sugars
-eat veggies, eat meat, eat fats
-move a lot
-sit less
-exercise
-quit the stress
-quit the alarm
-go to sleep when you're tired
-wake up without an alarm
-get out of the rat race/matrix
-etc...

Check books by Frank Forencich.
cool, thanks for the input!

some basic research I've done are in line with what you're saying. I'm a bit confused about breads, cereals, rice and other similar carbs - are these bad for us? Doesn't our body need carbs?

I'll check out Frank Forencich books too :up:

I'd love to hear more about your journey escaping the rat-race, that's another major goal of mine
 

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Espi said:
I have!

All one has to do to achieve optimal health is eat healthy, sleep 8-10 hours a night, and incorporate a consistent workout regimen (preferably weights).

Also, visualization, I feel, is paramount for maintaining optimal health. In whatever situation I find myself, I'm always visualizing mad success; for example, when I'm in the gym, I see myself benching 315 lbs. 12 times; when I'm at work, I imagine influencing people beyond their wildest dreams. When a beautiful woman is talking to me, I'm already envisionng myself giving her the best foreplay she's ever imagined.
major props!

I'm a strong believer in the power of visualisation too :)

can u please share more on what you consider healthy eating as well as any key distinctions about health you may have?

thanks!
 

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The more time food spends in a factory, the less likely it will be in my mouth. Avoid: processed food, foods with man made chemicals, foods that gone through extrusion, ect.
 

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stronglifts said:
Just call it "healthy".

In my experience, the closer I started to behave like a "caveman", be it nutrition or physical activity, the better I started to feel.

Examples:
-quit the junk food
-quit the sugars
-eat veggies, eat meat, eat fats
-move a lot
-sit less
-exercise
-quit the stress
-quit the alarm
-go to sleep when you're tired
-wake up without an alarm
-get out of the rat race/matrix
-etc...

Check books by Frank Forencich.
Get into bow hunting if you want to be a caveman. You get some tasty, lean, fresh and free game meat as well.
 

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stayfly said:
cool, thanks for the input!

some basic research I've done are in line with what you're saying. I'm a bit confused about breads, cereals, rice and other similar carbs - are these bad for us? Doesn't our body need carbs?

I'll check out Frank Forencich books too :up:

I'd love to hear more about your journey escaping the rat-race, that's another major goal of mine
Check the Anabolic Diet for a no carb diet. I'm on it.

Escaping the rat-race: become self-employed so you start choosing when/how/... you work.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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stayfly said:
secondly, please share some details of your journey to excellent health
I used to exercises and lifting weights whenever from when I played football freshman year till I was 18. Right before I turned 19 I went on a vacation and met up with a buddy. His physique was flawless,as proportioned as you can get,and I asked how he did it. He informed of his eating habits and so on. From then I haven't ate fast food or eaten anything with trans fat,lard or ingredients starting with hydro. My blood pressure has dropped from pretension to normal and my face doesn't break out at all anymore. I can honestly say I have no desire to eat any fake food,alcohol or drugs which really helps. I sleep 6+ hours a night and lift 6 out of 7 days of the week.

I look at my body as a car,if I feed it and treat it like crap it will run like just that. If I treat it with premuim gas(real food) and visit the shop(gym) it will run forever.
 

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I used to exercises and lifting weights whenever from when I played football freshman year till I was 18. Right before I turned 19 I went on a vacation and met up with a buddy. His physique was flawless,as proportioned as you can get,and I asked how he did it. He informed of his eating habits and so on. From then I haven't ate fast food or eaten anything with trans fat,lard or ingredients starting with hydro. My blood pressure has dropped from pretension to normal and my face doesn't break out at all anymore. I can honestly say I have no desire to eat any fake food,alcohol or drugs which really helps. I sleep 6+ hours a night and lift 6 out of 7 days of the week.

I look at my body as a car,if I feed it and treat it like crap it will run like just that. If I treat it with premuim gas(real food) and visit the shop(gym) it will run forever.
that's great! do you/your friend follow any particular diet or just try and eat as naturally as possible?
 

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stayfly said:
that's great! do you/your friend follow any particular diet or just try and eat as naturally as possible?
We keep it simple,eat REAL food. Meats,fruits(no sugar added),veggies(no sugar or salt added if possible),unsalted peanuts,fat free milk and water.

The foods that I watch out of those are corn and potatoes,other then that it's all you can eat!
 

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We keep it simple,eat REAL food. Meats,fruits(no sugar added),veggies(no sugar or salt added if possible),unsalted peanuts,fat free milk and water.

The foods that I watch out of those are corn and potatoes,other then that it's all you can eat!
nice one!

if you have a moment I'd be interested to hear what is the reason for avoiding corn and potato :rockon:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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blinkwatt said:
I look at my body as a car,if I feed it and treat it like crap it will run like just that. If I treat it with premuim gas(real food) and visit the shop(gym) it will run forever.
That's a darn good comparison :up:
 

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stayfly said:
nice one!

if you have a moment I'd be interested to hear what is the reason for avoiding corn and potato :rockon:
I try to avoid corn in the p.m.s due to starch and as for potatoes,my buddy told me to watch them so I just stay away all together. I try to avoid cheese as well because I was told it's hard on your stomach=more wear-n-tear then necessary.
 

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I try to avoid corn in the p.m.s due to starch and as for potatoes,my buddy told me to watch them so I just stay away all together. I try to avoid cheese as well because I was told it's hard on your stomach=more wear-n-tear then necessary.
cool
 

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stronglifts said:
Just call it "healthy".

In my experience, the closer I started to behave like a "caveman", be it nutrition or physical activity, the better I started to feel.

Examples:
-quit the junk food
-quit the sugars
-eat veggies, eat meat, eat fats
-move a lot
-sit less
-exercise
-quit the stress
-quit the alarm
-go to sleep when you're tired
-wake up without an alarm
-get out of the rat race/matrix
-etc...

Check books by Frank Forencich.
Hmmm I hear rat race alot now must mean everyones read that book :), And I agree about the living like a caveman mentality, you cut out all the garbage you dont need and suddenly you feel and look imaculate.
 

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The whole cavemen diet thing is great. I can't remember the last time I was sick, and I used to wake up every morning with the morning sniffles, thought I had sinus problems but it's really cleared up now.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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