"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Anyone here a paid member of 'hot ot not'?

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silverwex

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Just wondering if any of you guys are a paid member of the 'meet-me' section of hotornot.com?

Is it worth it?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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sure, but if you hope that because others are using it that it makes it ok then you're missing the idea behind this site.

I know in the beginning stages it's hard to know if doing one thing is right or not, but it's in your head as to what works for you. Not what other guys on this forum think or do.

It may seem relevant to know if it's worth the money, but if it's something you really want to try. Then do it, don't get our permission to try something out.
 

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Thanks for the reply, but I think you got me wrong.

I was just wondering if anyoen uses the site and if it's any good for contacting chicks. I never look for permission from anyone to do anything :)
 

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Originally posted by DJHoolahoop
sure, but if you hope that because others are using it that it makes it ok then you're missing the idea behind this site.

I know in the beginning stages it's hard to know if doing one thing is right or not, but it's in your head as to what works for you. Not what other guys on this forum think or do.

It may seem relevant to know if it's worth the money, but if it's something you really want to try. Then do it, don't get our permission to try something out.
WTF is this^^^^
 

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if you are serious about dating online, why not... it will definally increase your chances
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

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If you have a large double match list, you might as well pay as its only 6 bucks I believe. You get to build your list before you pay so there isn't much risk.
 

silverwex

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Thanks lads. I currently trying to build up a double match list lol. I clicked yes to about 30+ ladies and only one has clicked yes in return! lol

Once i get about 5 double matches i think ill join up.
 
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