You joined her and posted a video that is "member's only access". If you posted that video, that must mean you have joined as a member of her channel as well. There is only one fee, which is $ 20 / mo. Her content is mainly dating advice, which a number of women actually also provide online as well.
What made you decide to spend $ 20 / mo. She seems to have allot of free videos on her channel. I guess you must really see value in her content as well...and she presents as an attractive and knowlegable women, like many other ladies doing youtube channels do.
There is also Your Wingmam;
https://www.youtube.com/@YourWingmam/featured
Her join fee is at least $ 5/ mo -- a typical fiver.
I am only a member of one channel which is about $ 3 /mo. If I'm going to go simping on youtube, at least I want it to be a Christian lady:
Hello! My name is Bella! I am a follower of Jesus Christ and I preach the good news of Jesus! You’re always welcome here! God bless you!✝️
www.youtube.com
I wouldn't pay $ 20 to simp for that pyschologist. But to each their own.