anyone have tips/problems staying hard?

[mastacheef]

so last night, making out with a chick in her bed, I get hard and we start dry humping but after a while I go limp, and when the time comes when I want to fvck her I'm still limp! This has really been frustrating me.. and here are some possible key points to my problem:

*drinking alcohol (even if I'm not wasted)
*smoking cigarettes (less than a pack every 2-3 weeks depending on what I'm doing)
*masturbating too often? (3-4 times a week)

does anyone else have this problem or have any tips or might possibly know of any other problem causes that I can fix? thanks guys!

 

[DoctorLW]

I don't see a problem with any of the things you listed, save alcohol... but that should only be an issue when you are drinking.

You might want to see a doctor to be honest bro.

 

[Sam Adams]

I'd drop the smoking like the bad habit it is. It has been known to cause those problems and a whole lot more. I also wouldn't drink that much either if you think you are going to get some action. I have always managed to get hard but once alcohol touches my lips I almost never bust. Even if I have like 3 beers and then have sex for like 2 hours I won't bust. Another factor that you didn't mention is your fitness. The fitter you are the stronger erection you get. I am not talking about fitness as in how much you can bench but cardio fitness like how fast you can run a mile. Whenever I am in great running shape (17 min. 5k times) my wood is stronger than steel. Try running a few times a week, I think you would be surprised how much that helps.

 

[DoctorLW]

I'd drop the smoking like the bad habit it is. It has been known to cause those problems and a whole lot more. I also wouldn't drink that much either if you think you are going to get some action. I have always managed to get hard but once alcohol touches my lips I almost never bust. Even if I have like 3 beers and then have sex for like 2 hours I won't bust. Another factor that you didn't mention is your fitness. The fitter you are the stronger erection you get. I am not talking about fitness as in how much you can bench but cardio fitness like how fast you can run a mile. Whenever I am in great running shape (17 min. 5k times) my wood is stronger than steel. Try running a few times a week, I think you would be surprised how much that helps.

I've noticed no difference between when I was fit cardiovascularly and when I wasn't. But then again, the only time I have difficulty busting is when I'm 20 beers deep and have had a few lines. Make that 30 beers if it's an erection problem we are talking about. So I might not be the best reference point here.

I will say this, the more you have sex really fvcked up, the easier it gets to do it. So if you like drinking, just keep at it.

 

[Aboleo]

I find that I last a little longer with a few beers in my system, actually... just try not to get 'plastered' and make sure you p!ss a few times before having sex and you should be fine. Other than that, you might try some viagra(sp?).

Wait, hold the ****ing phone... YOU'RE 18 ****ING YEARS OLD! -- nevermind, kid... alcohol is bad for you. Stop drinking it until you're 21.

Good luck.

 

[Sam Adams]

I guess every body is different but I definitely know that my cardio shape has an effect on me.

 

[just so suave]

Why would he stopp drinking until he's 21?

 

[KontrollerX]

Possible solutions...

-Quit smoking
-Quit drinking
-Reduce taming the bishop
-Make sure you are completely chilled out and at ease with her before trying to fvck her

If none of the above works its time to see the urologist and if he or she can't fix you its onto the psychologist and if he or she can't fix you Viagra will become your new best friend lol.

 

[Leporello]

It's probably more of a nervous problem than a gneuinely physical one. At 18 you should be healthy enough - even if you drink, smoke, and masturbate regularly - to get hard. You said you were hard before it came time to actually fvck her.

 

[Aboleo]

Why would he stopp drinking until he's 21?

I was kinda' joking there, but it actually is illegal to drink under the age of 21 here in the U.S.A.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Why don't you have her suck your d!ck before sex? That helps me...

 

[Aboleo]

You know, I hear this 'no masturbation before sex' thing going on around here quite a bit, and maybe different things are true for different people, but if I don't get off atleast every other day I'm more likely to 'bust a nut' right when I don't want to.

If I'm gettting sex on a regular basis, then I'm fine... I have alot of staying power. But, let's say I go a week or two without having sex and I don't masturbate, either. When I finally do get some pvssy, it is very hard not to 'go off' inside her after a relatively short period of time.

On the other hand (no pun intended), if I masturbate several hours before having sex, I can last for hours if I want to. If I didn't, well... I'd probably get too exicited and cut a perfectly good 'bangin' session short.

I have a steady girl right now, so I don't really need to jerk off. But if I didn't, well... I'm sure I'd be choaking my lizard everyday.

Try different things and see what works for you.

 

[Rhoto]

*smoking cigarettes (less than a pack every 2-3 weeks depending on what I'm doing)

Every cigarette builds the nicotine addiction. Stop now while ya can.

 

[j0n024]

I agree with abo....you wanna bust really fast if you haven't had sex in a while because you have so much buit up for lack of a better word cvm and your instincts wanna release it whether its on a womens face or on the floor next to your shoes. Try this ....cvm maybe like 30 mins before you actually have sex and then have sex....you will be able to last a hell of a lot longer because you dont have any cvm yet (Or not enough not doctor so dont know really why) and it will take a while longer for you to cvm, I use that somtimes when I wanna fvck the sh1t out of my x girl.

On topic I think it's either performance anxiety or you actually busted a nut and didnt even know it, I think it wasnt that bad since you were dry humping you got hard and you pre cvmmed but it didnt come out so itll probably turn to smegma...I think you should keep having foreplay till you are hard and do whatever you want.

 

[mastacheef]

thanks for the support guys, your going to laugh at this.. so the next night (last night) we are hooking up again but her room mate was in the same room and NO i do not want to have her join us nor does she haha (trust me) but to get to the laughter.. I took my jeans off before hoping in bed and I was hard all ****ing night and my boy kept coming out of the boxer hole which i thought was funny but nothing escalated because of the room mate haha. i guess it was something psychological for that night and a previous night but ill let you guys know my next encounter with tha females and see if i actually have a problem