Make a long story short. You hang with a woman for a bit and finally get sex. She knows your ex girlfriend indirectly. She knows she is a rebound for you. You get sex, than the next weekend you get shut out for whatever reason. You call her out on the **** teasing behavior which makes her uneasy. She contacts you the next weekend and than it comes out she is hanging with a long lost boyfriend from another country she's known for thirty years whose in town. She says can I see you tomorrow. Do you think this is a bunch of bull**** on her part regarding this phantom guy? is she making it up to spite me? Find it kind of funny all this time I never heard about this guy until recently days after our kind of falling out regarding her **** teasing. Any opinions? Anything happen similar to any guys on here? Never happened to me as it went down recently.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Anyone have this happen
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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From what you write your gut feeling is flashing red, steer away and don't waste your time.
I haven't wasted my time. Ignored her text about this phantom long lost boyfriend. Find it kind of funny woman pull anything out to make you suspicious or wondering about their motivations. Think she fabricated that story to a degree.Grewd said:
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I find empty speculation to be a waste of time. Fantasy or not, does it change your decision in either case?
My original question was have you had stuff similar like this happen. Where a woman feels scorned and to be vindictive they either invent someone to mean more than they really are or anything else to make you jealous.Grewd said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.