"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Anyone have some recommended reading?

PumpingIron13

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I have been reading off of this site and a lot of other sites for a couple of years now and I have learned a lot. My success with ladies has increased greatly as I have gained so much knowledge about the game.

The problem is I think I need to learn more, because I still fail on occasion with some girls and that kinda bothers me. I think theres some kinks in my game and the best way for me to fix that would be to read more so I can apply it.

I have no confidence issues or anything like that, my conversation skills and everything is fine around a girl but Im sure theres alot of books out there with some really cool tricks and stuff when it comes to spitting game at girls.

Does anyone know any good books with tricks or just any good books in general. I wanna absorb as much as I can, also does anyone know where i could get hard copies of DJ books? thanks
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Obsidian

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The Book of Pook is the best book, but it doesn't go much into speed seduction nonsense (which it sounds like you're looking for).
 
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