Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Anyone have some good first date ideas?

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iluvfemales

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I was wondering if anyone has some good ideas for an interactive first date. Prehaps we can make a list:
Comedy Club
Pool Hall
Dance Club
The Beach
who's got some ideas to add?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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PVSSY-EATER

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Anything action wise.

Go bowling, swimming, wherever. Just as long as it is action wise. and remember ...........HAVE FUNNNNNNNN
 

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If the girl is conservative. Take her some where crowed like Six Flags, then ask to hold her hand so she wont get lost.
 

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avoid noisey places like a club for a first date. do NOT do anythign romantic, no pu**y walks along the beach. comedy show is an ok idea but go for soemthing where you can both have fun like a pool club. whats the girl like, then think of a situation you can both have fun.
 

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My take...

What you do isn't as important as your overall demeanor.

Be relaxed, confident, fun to be around, a bit mysterious and challenging.

Also, keep it brief. Be the first to say, "I need to go home now" unless the two of you started making out or something!

If things are going well, but the activities themselves have petered out, etc (for example, you're at an amusement park, you're both having a great time, but you've both eaten lots of cotton candy, gone on a lot of rides, eetc), that's when the date should be ended - help create desire in her to see you again!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Ugh! haven't we discussed this topic like a BILLION times now!
 

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Well, as regular readers, we can either ignore repetitive material or make lemonade here and try to put a fresh take on an old subject.
Repitition is also dealt with rather swiftly by our excellent Moderators... :)
 

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if someone could post a link to an article about the subject it would help :)
 

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A sex club is a great date ideal. You don't have to participate but your intensions are well read. Plus if your chick is one of those ****ed up kind of broads, you can abuse them as much as you want cause they seem to ride on that ****.
 

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Originally posted by PRMoon
Ugh! haven't we discussed this topic like a BILLION times now!
I lost count long ago. By the way, what ever happened to just sitting down and getting to know each another. Feel one another out, qualify her?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by iluvfemales
if someone could post a link to an article about the subject it would help :)
So would you doing a search instead of expecting other people to do the work for you. :)

Everybody gets a freebie, so here's yours:
Originally posted by diablo
1) Do you like to cook? Cook for her.
2) Rent a video from Blockbuster.
3) Take a walk at the park or beach.
4) Volunteer at a shelter for the homeless, or an orphanage.
5) Go fishing at the pier.
6) Go hiking in the boonies.
7) Rollerblading or Biking.
8) Breakfast. Brunch. Lunch. Dinner.
9) Movies (only after 2nd date) or live concert or performing arts.
10) Go to museums.
11) Disneyland, Magic Mountain, Universal Studio, Knott Berry Farm, etc...
12) Skiing, boat ride.
13) Dinner cruises.
14) Go for a drink at a pub.
15) Dancing/clubbing.
16) Karaoke/singing.
17) Coffee houses, or tea.
18) Watch the sundown/sunup, look at the stars and moon.
19) Carriage ride.
20) Limo cruise out in the town.
21) Balloon ride over the blue yonder.
22) A good chat.
23) Window shopping or shopping at the mall.
25) Massage parlor.
26) Go to a friend's party.
27) Any circus in town. Ringling Brothers.
28) Watch for festivals like: Jazz, Chili, Reggae, international dance festivals.
29) Go to swap meets.
30) Like animals? Go to the zoo or Seaworld.
31) Baseball, Football, Basketball or any sporting events.
32) Watch fireworks.
33) Go-carts.
34) Miniature golfing.
35) Kayaking.
36) Go to the border to eat lobsters.
37) Watch race car drivers or monster truck shows.
38) Wrestling, or is it too hard for you?
39) How about gambling? Go to casinos.
40) Batting cages.
41) Del Mar fairground.
42) Horse back riding.
43) Wine tasting at Vineyard.
44) Did I say sailing yet?
45) Go to the mountains when it snows.
46) Day at the country to pick fruits.
47) Picnic at the park or wherever scenic.
48) Go to botanical gardens; see flowers.
49) Like arcades? Go to Nickel City.
50) Yoga/Meditation.

Taken from http://www.sosuave.com/halloffame/hall168.htm


1. AMUSEMENT PARKS - This really makes for a fun date, especially if you both enjoy thrill-seeking rides such as roller coasters, etc. Also, don't forget to try and win her a teddy bear or other keepsake.

2. BALLOON RIDES - I am referring to hot-air balloon rides. This is a breath-taking experience you both will never forget. It's very romantic and some rides even come with champagne.

3. BOAT RENTAL - This makes for a unique experience and it's so relaxing and enjoyable. You can charter a boat with captain and crew or rent a powerboat for skiing, fishing, or just for cruising.

4. CAMPING - What a great way to enjoy the great outdoors! Things really get cozy and romantic sitting in front of an open fire! This is sure to melt her heart and make her want to share your sleeping bar.

5. CARRIAGE RIDES - This is one of the ultimate romantic experiences. Just you and your lover or date in a horse-drawn carriage enjoying the scenery.

6. DINNER AT YOUR PLACE - One of my favorite things to do is to invite a lady over for a candlelight steak dinner and champagne. I do all the cooking and wait on my date hand and foot. I really make my date feel special. So, if you really want to make someone feel special and have a romantic evening, do this for a very special date.

7. DINNER THEATRE - There's nothing like good entertainment while you're eating. Your date will really be impressed and this is one of my top choices to take a date to.

8. GO-CARTS - These are a lot of fun for adults too. Why not challenge your date to a race around the track.

9. HAY RIDES - Have you ever been on a hayride? It's a lot of fun and something very different to do.

10. HELICOPTER RIDES - This was one of the most exciting dates I ever went on. My date and I took a helicopter tour of downtown San Diego and the Shoreline. I was especially fascinated flying over the skyscrapers and looking down on them. This will be an expensive date, because to charter a helicopter can cost you up to $500 an hour. If you can afford it, it's worth the money just for the experience.

11. HORSE RACES OR DOG RACES - Here's another fun activity you can both share and make some money too, if you are lucky.

12. ICE SKATING - Don't know how to skate? No problem, It's a lot of fun just learning. Sure, you're going to take a few spills on the ice. It's all part of the fun! This is great place to go on a date even if you don't know how to ice skate. You can always take lessons, too.

13. JET SKIS - This is like riding a motorcycle on the water and your date can ride on the back. Take my word for it, this is the ultimate joy ride while having some great fun on the water. You can rent them for about $20 for a half-hour.

14. KITE FLYING - Stop by any toy store and pick up a kite and go on a kite date. Head for your local park, beach, or any wide-open space. Kites are not just for kids. It's a fun experience for all ages and it's kind of romantic. So, get your date and go fly a kite.

15. LIMOUSINE DATE - When you want to tell someone they're special, what better way to do it than with the unexpected. Sending flowers is nice, but sending flowers with a limousine is unforgettable. This is a great way to let dancers know they are real special to you.

16. LIVE MUSIC - This will put you and your date in a good mood, especially if the band is good. Check out your area for places that offer live music. Take her to Rock Concerts too.

17. MOONLIGHT STROLLS - When there's a full moon and clear skies, head for any lake or seashore. It's so romantic to take your shoes off and wade along the shore with the full moon gleaming on the water

Taken from http://www.sosuave.com/articles/17.htm
 
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