"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Anyone have good girl hanging out with her friends tips?

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I read the Bible, but it has a one liner quote...


anyone want to help me with their experiences, and what they usually say? When everyone I see her, she's hanging with her best friend, and I don't know the other girl.
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by Bling
I read the Bible, but it has a one liner quote...


anyone want to help me with their experiences, and what they usually say? When everyone I see her, she's hanging with her best friend, and I don't know the other girl.
What exactly are you asking for help in? What specific topics?
 

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I'm 95% sure a girl likes me. For the last month, she eyes me everyday at carline and in school. When I look back, she holds for a second and looks away. However, she sits to the table next to me at lunch and never talks to me (but she still eyes me). I'm not going to talk to her during lunch because she talks to a ***** that hates me during lunch. The only other time I see her is during carline. There she hangs out with her best friend--who I don't hate. I'd talk to her, but she is always with her, and I don't really know her friend. I hate to sound like the rest of the 1 posters, but what do I do?


I didn't see anything in the bible up through Week 6. The website with a bunch of articles on kino, sex, Nice Guy vs. Jerk, etc. doesn't have anything from what I can remember either. I tried a search, but no results. Any help would help.
 

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treat her friend like you treat her....bust her balls too...and dont let yourself fall into the trap of oneitis. you never know you might end up having 2 numbers in your pocket
 

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"how are you ladies today?"blah blah blah

you get the point
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dude, just hit on both of them. That way the girl gets jealous, and you have a better chance. If you want to ask her out or something alone( i mean just the 2 of U) just askthe other girl to leave for a minute.
 

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You can either ignore the friend(if you are alpha) or befriend the friend(if your not fully alpha)

Ignore the friend
"You are beautiful. I want to get to know you"(credit to Shark, will only work if your absolutely alpha) I know what people are going to say "Oh my God Animals AFC blah blah blah" I just don't believe in making excuses for your approach, shes given you IOIs so go get it over with. You must keep being alpha through-out then though. You must also have the mindset "She looks good so I decided Id come up and give her a chance to see what her personalitys like."

Befriend the friend
Walk up and talk to the both of them, make up an excuse for why you walked up like "Hi in class we were doing blah blah blah did you understand" or something like that. Then use C&F and everything else(she seems to like you though so don't go overboard) and develop rapport and go from there.

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