"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Anyone have experience with meditation?

JustLurk

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It depends on the type of meditation you want to do and the goals set. Razor mentions good advice for a specific type of meditation.. Choose one and do it.
It comes easier for some people than others, but focusing and calming gets easier the more you do it. An article I read said awareness meditation changed your brain structure in 8 weeks which isn't too long of a time considering there's no drugs involved.
Check out the links, lol. There are articles out there written by people that meditate for hours on end pretty much daily.
JustLurk said:
Some people go from meditation topics to other, related, topics and sometimes those topics aren't left alone by flamers or people that disagree, and it usually gets in the way of just the meditation discussion.
Alle_Gory said:
Oh really and he talks back? Strange voices in your head are a sign of mental disease.
Alle_Gory said:
That's nice. Proof? Or just drug induced trips?
This is why I don't do hard drugs.
That was predictable enough, mirite? :woo: :rock:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3nwwKbM_vJc
http://www.physorg.com/news/2011-01-mindfulness-meditation-brain-weeks.html
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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