"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Anyone have experience with meditation?

JustLurk

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It depends on the type of meditation you want to do and the goals set. Razor mentions good advice for a specific type of meditation.. Choose one and do it.
It comes easier for some people than others, but focusing and calming gets easier the more you do it. An article I read said awareness meditation changed your brain structure in 8 weeks which isn't too long of a time considering there's no drugs involved.
Check out the links, lol. There are articles out there written by people that meditate for hours on end pretty much daily.
JustLurk said:
Some people go from meditation topics to other, related, topics and sometimes those topics aren't left alone by flamers or people that disagree, and it usually gets in the way of just the meditation discussion.
Alle_Gory said:
Oh really and he talks back? Strange voices in your head are a sign of mental disease.
Alle_Gory said:
That's nice. Proof? Or just drug induced trips?
This is why I don't do hard drugs.
That was predictable enough, mirite? :woo: :rock:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3nwwKbM_vJc
http://www.physorg.com/news/2011-01-mindfulness-meditation-brain-weeks.html
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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