"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Anyone have experience with foreign Asian women? Date details inside.

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I just got back from hanging out with a Chinese hb7.5. She was very playful, funny, interesting and gave me IOI's throughout the night. We went out to sushi and she even picked up the check :whistle:. I insisted in splitting it, but she didn't let me pay (I did her a favor with a transcript order at school).
I did tip the waitress, though; it was the least I could do. After dinner, we went for a walk at her favorite university(of which I know everything about) and she loved it. I kino'd her throughout the night and she was receptive every single time.

However, I tried kissing her a few times, but she declined smiling. I kissed her on the cheek when we met at the restaurant. At the end of the get-together, I went in for it again and she said it was "too fast." She went to a Catholic high school & she's an international student. I kissed her on the cheek & touched a small part of her lips. I want to kiss her on the lips next time. I know Asian girls tend to be conservative & she's definitely not the Americanized kind. She said she had a great time with a huge smile on her face right before I left.

Anybody have tips on this? Should I wait on her to ask me to hangout again or do it myself?
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Get her out again and get to know her more. You macked a free meal and she showed IOIs so you know she is interested. You might have to slow your roll a bit if she is one of those girls that requires 4 dates instead of 3 to get wild. Doesn't matter though, no need to speed close.
 
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Good for her for paying for the meal. Gotta respect that from the get go. Am in Asia and honestly can't remember the last time a b*tch even offered to pay her half.
 
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It's not so much the fact that foreign Asian girls are more conservative...

They're just much more afraid of being judged.

My advice to you, ignore it and keep going at it. What the feminine Asian males don't have the balls to do will set you apart from the rest.
 
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I lived in Asia for a year and a half.

Asian girls like strong men, but they are afraid of what people will say about them if they put out.

My advice? ISOLATE. Get her alone, and she's yours.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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