"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Anyone have experience with foreign Asian women? Date details inside.

Masculinity

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I just got back from hanging out with a Chinese hb7.5. She was very playful, funny, interesting and gave me IOI's throughout the night. We went out to sushi and she even picked up the check :whistle:. I insisted in splitting it, but she didn't let me pay (I did her a favor with a transcript order at school).
I did tip the waitress, though; it was the least I could do. After dinner, we went for a walk at her favorite university(of which I know everything about) and she loved it. I kino'd her throughout the night and she was receptive every single time.

However, I tried kissing her a few times, but she declined smiling. I kissed her on the cheek when we met at the restaurant. At the end of the get-together, I went in for it again and she said it was "too fast." She went to a Catholic high school & she's an international student. I kissed her on the cheek & touched a small part of her lips. I want to kiss her on the lips next time. I know Asian girls tend to be conservative & she's definitely not the Americanized kind. She said she had a great time with a huge smile on her face right before I left.

Anybody have tips on this? Should I wait on her to ask me to hangout again or do it myself?
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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3countriesPlan

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Get her out again and get to know her more. You macked a free meal and she showed IOIs so you know she is interested. You might have to slow your roll a bit if she is one of those girls that requires 4 dates instead of 3 to get wild. Doesn't matter though, no need to speed close.
 

Yo'Mama

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Good for her for paying for the meal. Gotta respect that from the get go. Am in Asia and honestly can't remember the last time a b*tch even offered to pay her half.
 

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It's not so much the fact that foreign Asian girls are more conservative...

They're just much more afraid of being judged.

My advice to you, ignore it and keep going at it. What the feminine Asian males don't have the balls to do will set you apart from the rest.
 

Leporello

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I lived in Asia for a year and a half.

Asian girls like strong men, but they are afraid of what people will say about them if they put out.

My advice? ISOLATE. Get her alone, and she's yours.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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