"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Anyone have experience shaving it off ?

donArjun

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thinking about shaving it off..

right now , I have hair now but its receding fast, I comb it back, and at least I don't get nasty looks or stares at baldness ...eyes that go up my head..

but I am thinking about on just shaving it all off because I just hate thinking about hair loss and I hate combing it back , makes me look like a comb-over

but you think, I should just keep the hair I have now (At least I am getting some girls interested with this ****ty hair because if I shave it, it could get worse I wouldn't even get what I am getting now.... , or just f** shave it, who cares what girls think...


what do you think??
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ziminxe79

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donArjun said:
thinking about shaving it off..

right now , I have hair now but its receding fast, I comb it back, and at least I don't get nasty looks or stares at baldness ...eyes that go up my head..

but I am thinking about on just shaving it all off because I just hate thinking about hair loss and I hate combing it back , makes me look like a comb-over

but you think, I should just keep the hair I have now (At least I am getting some girls interested with this ****ty hair because if I shave it, it could get worse I wouldn't even get what I am getting now.... , just f** shave it, who cares what girls think...


what do you think??

well as for me iam 27 and on one side of my hairline its deeper then the right one i hate it. I want to grow my hair long.
 

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Well you can either cut it really short or just take it right off. I'd do something though - cutting your hair is in your control; but baldness is out of your control.
 
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I DON'T have a balding issue and I'm still wanting to shave it off. The look is really cool, whatever you do don't make your hair too long.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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im 20 and am losing my hair, shaved it all off,, at first thought it would be depressing,now i get depressed wen i let it grow for to long cos it feels untidy!!!

i love it
 

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My mommy got breast cancer and I shaved it off.

Nobody wants me to grow it back.

Whichever way you go, how you project is how people perceive. If you hate your hair, others do too. If you love your bald head, others will too.
 

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I shaved my head for the state swimming championships for three years in a row. I had long hair before I shaved each time and it felt great. It's a rush and I'd do it again if I hadn't spent so much time growing my hair out now.
 

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I've shaved my head twice for swimming, as well. It's a really cool look, and when I start to lose my hair (not really an 'if', unfortunately), I'll do it again. It looks manly.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I have mine shaved short, but not shaved clean off.

The problem with shaving it clean is it's high-maintenance - you have to keep doing it every few days, I assume?

Then again, Style did it. Sometimes, you gotta do what you gotta do.
 

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Vulpine said:
My mommy got breast cancer and I shaved it off.

Nobody wants me to grow it back.

Whichever way you go, how you project is how people perceive. If you hate your hair, others do too. If you love your bald head, others will too.
you're my hero
 

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Hmm how do you guys do it? Elctrical?

When I had a mohawk I once used a lady shave, that trimmed it down pretty slick...
 

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If your only two options are a comb over and shaving it off, shave it. If you can afford hair treatments, you might consider that.

Being completely bald won't hurt your game. Niel Strauss (Style) is one of the best PUAs in the world and he was once in the same situation as you.
 
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