"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Anyone have experience shaving it off ?

donArjun

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thinking about shaving it off..

right now , I have hair now but its receding fast, I comb it back, and at least I don't get nasty looks or stares at baldness ...eyes that go up my head..

but I am thinking about on just shaving it all off because I just hate thinking about hair loss and I hate combing it back , makes me look like a comb-over

but you think, I should just keep the hair I have now (At least I am getting some girls interested with this ****ty hair because if I shave it, it could get worse I wouldn't even get what I am getting now.... , or just f** shave it, who cares what girls think...


what do you think??
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ziminxe79

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donArjun said:
thinking about shaving it off..

right now , I have hair now but its receding fast, I comb it back, and at least I don't get nasty looks or stares at baldness ...eyes that go up my head..

but I am thinking about on just shaving it all off because I just hate thinking about hair loss and I hate combing it back , makes me look like a comb-over

but you think, I should just keep the hair I have now (At least I am getting some girls interested with this ****ty hair because if I shave it, it could get worse I wouldn't even get what I am getting now.... , just f** shave it, who cares what girls think...


what do you think??

well as for me iam 27 and on one side of my hairline its deeper then the right one i hate it. I want to grow my hair long.
 

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Well you can either cut it really short or just take it right off. I'd do something though - cutting your hair is in your control; but baldness is out of your control.
 
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I DON'T have a balding issue and I'm still wanting to shave it off. The look is really cool, whatever you do don't make your hair too long.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dean

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im 20 and am losing my hair, shaved it all off,, at first thought it would be depressing,now i get depressed wen i let it grow for to long cos it feels untidy!!!

i love it
 

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My mommy got breast cancer and I shaved it off.

Nobody wants me to grow it back.

Whichever way you go, how you project is how people perceive. If you hate your hair, others do too. If you love your bald head, others will too.
 

seanchai

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I shaved my head for the state swimming championships for three years in a row. I had long hair before I shaved each time and it felt great. It's a rush and I'd do it again if I hadn't spent so much time growing my hair out now.
 

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I've shaved my head twice for swimming, as well. It's a really cool look, and when I start to lose my hair (not really an 'if', unfortunately), I'll do it again. It looks manly.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I have mine shaved short, but not shaved clean off.

The problem with shaving it clean is it's high-maintenance - you have to keep doing it every few days, I assume?

Then again, Style did it. Sometimes, you gotta do what you gotta do.
 

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Vulpine said:
My mommy got breast cancer and I shaved it off.

Nobody wants me to grow it back.

Whichever way you go, how you project is how people perceive. If you hate your hair, others do too. If you love your bald head, others will too.
you're my hero
 

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Hmm how do you guys do it? Elctrical?

When I had a mohawk I once used a lady shave, that trimmed it down pretty slick...
 

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If your only two options are a comb over and shaving it off, shave it. If you can afford hair treatments, you might consider that.

Being completely bald won't hurt your game. Niel Strauss (Style) is one of the best PUAs in the world and he was once in the same situation as you.
 
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