"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Anyone have a woman walk out on them, because you're good looking? How did you feel?

konmai

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I just came back from a date... that didn't happen. My brother set me up with a girl he knew from school. I've never seen her but trust my little brother. When I went to pick her up and was walking her to my car, she stopped and said, "I can't do this. You're too good looking for me." Then she went back into her house.

:nervous: Who has had this happen? I don't know what to think. I've gone on dates with some girls who I didn't find attractive, but I at least enjoyed my time.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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nismo-4

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I rule this bullsh*t on the grounds that women won't walk out on an attractive guy. Women know what they want.

She doesn't find you attractive. :cry:

I've got a taste for some Popeye's chicken.

Case closed.
 

Groovy

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She'll be back.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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cablecow15

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I do know certin situations where a girl with a guy she deems to attractive will feel theres no way the guy will take her as more than a fling because he is at such a higher level than she is . Ive had girls who things this constantly say things like "why are you talking to me " or " im supprised your still here " just stupid selfconsious crap lol .

I mean where you super better lookin than her ?

theres a million possibilities
 

Young Juan

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2 words: That b!tch got low self-esteem. It would eventually manifest itself in one way or another
 
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