"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Anyone have a woman walk out on them, because you're good looking? How did you feel?

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konmai

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I just came back from a date... that didn't happen. My brother set me up with a girl he knew from school. I've never seen her but trust my little brother. When I went to pick her up and was walking her to my car, she stopped and said, "I can't do this. You're too good looking for me." Then she went back into her house.

:nervous: Who has had this happen? I don't know what to think. I've gone on dates with some girls who I didn't find attractive, but I at least enjoyed my time.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I rule this bullsh*t on the grounds that women won't walk out on an attractive guy. Women know what they want.

She doesn't find you attractive. :cry:

I've got a taste for some Popeye's chicken.

Case closed.
 
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Groovy

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She'll be back.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I do know certin situations where a girl with a guy she deems to attractive will feel theres no way the guy will take her as more than a fling because he is at such a higher level than she is . Ive had girls who things this constantly say things like "why are you talking to me " or " im supprised your still here " just stupid selfconsious crap lol .

I mean where you super better lookin than her ?

theres a million possibilities
 
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2 words: That b!tch got low self-esteem. It would eventually manifest itself in one way or another
 
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