"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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anyone got dark circles under their eyes?

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If you have light blue eyes you are prone to them because you have thin skin around your eyes as well.

Or it could be a sign of kidney, liver and colon sluggishness. Drink lots of freshly squeezed lemonade with Distilled water and Stevia for the kidneys, then take Milk Thistle for the liver and periodically use a detox kit like Zand for the colon. You skin will take on a healthy glow and you'll see the dark circles fade alongside that.
 

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i got it. I probably have it worse than u.
People ask me if i'm an insomniac and i tell them it's my genetics. Some people ask me out of pure interest some ask me out of D-baggery. So i tell them yo my mom and my dad both have it, so my whole family has it.

I've gotten decent girls looking AND feeling like complete **** before. Probably because i wasn't trying. Totally exhausted is bad. But once you keep your blood flowing you should still have a healthy look to your face.

It's funny that when u smoke weed they get twice as bad. I still smoke weed every day.
 

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Chamber36 said:
It's funny that when u smoke weed they get twice as bad. I still smoke weed every day.
Yes that's because it increases blood flow there which is why it makes your eyes red and helps Glaucoma. But detox also helps even if you do smoke. Also, look into face exercises around the eyes. If you build up the muscles in your cheek bones the dark circles aren't as bad.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I have them. I also have always had Ulcerative Colitis and suspected Chrohn's disease, and I'm sure that contributes. In addition, I'm trying like crazy to get my sleep cyles in order with little success. It's rare that I can even start to feel tired before 3 a.m.

There is one thing that can help enormously if you wear glasses... Get nice, bold black frames. They effectively eclipse and take away a lot of the visibility of the dark circles.

Funny this thread should pop up because I was going to start a new thread talking about those who suffer from chronic illness. We have an extra tough time with the ladies because I believe that living a life full of physical pain gets etched on the face, even more than we personally realize.
 

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Chamber36 said:
yeah Jack Lalanne know's the remedy for this.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=isLJ024EdMA
LOL, check out the organ music which tries to match the moves he's doing. Did you notice the music that is playing when he stretches his eyes sideways?

Good info, though. There's a lot to be learned from thos old vids.
 

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Further evidence of the feminization of society.

GIRLS care about dark circles under the eyes. MEN do not.

I really hate the whole "this is what a REAL man does" vibe but for once I'm going to use it. The dark circles under your eyes are NOT holding you back one iota. I can guarantee that.
 

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FairShake said:
Further evidence of the feminization of society.

GIRLS care about dark circles under the eyes. MEN do not.

I really hate the whole "this is what a REAL man does" vibe but for once I'm going to use it. The dark circles under your eyes are NOT holding you back one iota. I can guarantee that.
So the line "that guy with the circles under his eyes creep me out" is not going to damage his life?
When something slightly suggest the fact that you're a serial masturbator is for sure something that lead to conseguences.
All it needs is a girl saying so and all her friends with their sheep mentality will do the rest,no girl challenge the group.

What you say make sense about guys wearing uncomfortable clothes because of fashion or shaving their eyebrows.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Strelok said:
So the line "that guy with the circles under his eyes creep me out" is not going to damage his life?
When something slightly suggest the fact that you're a serial masturbator is for sure something that lead to conseguences.
All it needs is a girl saying so and all her friends with their sheep mentality will do the rest,no girl challenge the group.
No, "that guy with the circles under his eyes creep me out" is not going to damage his life. It may damage him with that girl or maybe even her sheep friends but most girls won't care about something like that. Yeah looks matter but dark circles is not even close to a game killer for most women.

You are not going to be attractive to every woman. Those guys with low self-esteem need to remember that!
 
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