"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Anyone got big foreheads?

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Hey guy's I'm new and young (18). I've been reading articles and threads for a while. I was wondering, if any guys out there have big foreheads (not balding) and what you can do with it. This is the only big insecurity I have so I grew my hair long to cover it but I hate thinking about it.

Should I just shave it all off?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Pepto said:
lol

anymore replies?
I was going to write a dignified answer, but this is a really stupid question.

:crackup:


You got a big forehead. This is the hand you were dealt.
Thinking about it all the time is not going to change it. You're always going to have a big forehead. Accept it.

Go to a stylist and find a good hairstyle for your head shape. If you can find a gay stylist, you hit the jackpot. They have a supernatural ability to tell you what looks good.
 

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Oh ok? You hurt my feelings? At least you got my sense of humor. :]
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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My god, people get more dumb everyday.
 

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I have a big forehead. I've been self-conscious about it since my twenties.

Then one day I stopped caring. I figured if women were responding so well to me, clearly it wasn't an issue.
 

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The thing about women that I really love is that they only care about your insecurities if you do. Basically if you were bald and you cared then they would care but if you don't care then they do not.

Women are basically attracted to pure strength so if you are fat and don't care then it does not matter that you are fat, except when you originally start talking to them b4 they are head over heels for you.

Personally I started balding in grade 8 and I am now 25. It does not matter. I actually shaved my head for cancer a few years ago and all the girls were like that looks great so it worked out for me cause I kept it like that. Try shaving your head.. you can always grow it back :) Lucky guy with hair.

Plus less hair on your head means theres most likely more testosterone in your body which makes it easier for you to become more confident.
 

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It's not the forehead that's the problem; it's the workings taking place in that forehead that is the true issue here. Insecurity is like a disease that will enter your existence and wreak havoc on any endeavors you undertake, be they romantic, professional or otherwise. Confidence is like the vitamins to rid off such diseases. You need to find what makes you confident and get your daily dose.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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