A girl I've been flirting with for a while now has suggested we go rock climbing for our first date. Now, I've never been rock climbing so I don't really know what to expect, so any help from people would be appreciated. Thanks.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Anyone gone rock climbing on a first date?
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Hey bro, I haven't done it for a date yet just because I live in AZ and the place I normally go to is hot as sheet... I don't like gettin all sweaty on dates.
Best tip I can give you is use your feet and legs when you climb ***AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE***. A lot of rookies rely too much on their arms to climb and eventually tire their upper bodies out and look weak when they are struggling to make it to the next hold. Predominately using your legs whenever feasible makes you look more stable when climbing, and will make your moves look more natural.
Other than that just have fun mayn, rock climbing's one of my favorite ways to exercise because I find it hard to NOT enjoy doing it. Let us know how it goes!
Best tip I can give you is use your feet and legs when you climb ***AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE***. A lot of rookies rely too much on their arms to climb and eventually tire their upper bodies out and look weak when they are struggling to make it to the next hold. Predominately using your legs whenever feasible makes you look more stable when climbing, and will make your moves look more natural.
Other than that just have fun mayn, rock climbing's one of my favorite ways to exercise because I find it hard to NOT enjoy doing it. Let us know how it goes!
I've read that rock climbing can be a VERY erotic experience for girls. Go for it. It was a long ass article in Penthouse I read as a teenager. In can be a huge turn on.
Sweaty active bodies in motion...Think about it! Whats gonna be on her mind as she looks up at you flexing all your muscles, all scantily clad, and sweating?
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Ummm.....Most of us on here do, actually! I dont know about AZ right now, though!
Sweaty active bodies in motion...Think about it! Whats gonna be on her mind as she looks up at you flexing all your muscles, all scantily clad, and sweating?
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I would put a blanket in my pack and **** her on some remote bluff after lunch if I was going to do it. Then again, she'd be all sweaty before you even got started. Probably be better to **** her somewhere else for a while first (like an apartment or house) and then **** her on the bluffs later as a kinky way to change things up but if you've got nowhere else to take her and all the roads in your area are well patrolled.. it's cheaper than a hotel. Or did you mean one of those indoor rock climbing places? No way would I meet her there. Nothing is going to go down at an indoor place... unless you just really want to get to know this chick for some reason then it's just whatever, doesn't matter.
I would put a blanket in my pack and **** her on some remote bluff after lunch if I was going to do it. Then again, she'd be all sweaty before you even got started. Probably be better to **** her somewhere else for a while first (like an apartment or house) and then **** her on the bluffs later as a kinky way to change things up but if you've got nowhere else to take her and all the roads in your area are well patrolled.. it's cheaper than a hotel. Or did you mean one of those indoor rock climbing places? No way would I meet her there. Nothing is going to go down at an indoor place... unless you just really want to get to know this chick for some reason then it's just whatever, doesn't matter.
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If you can imagine doing it, do so! Actually I like rock climbing and it is a very powerful experience to make it to the top, for both of you. If you're having fun then she'll be pudding in no time.
BUT: keep in mind that she will probably belay you(secure your rope), which is not as trivial as most people like to think. This means you'll have to trust her competence in rock climbing.
Additionally, if you don't know jack about climbing, don't act up. You will really be making a fool out of yourself.
BUT: keep in mind that she will probably belay you(secure your rope), which is not as trivial as most people like to think. This means you'll have to trust her competence in rock climbing.
Additionally, if you don't know jack about climbing, don't act up. You will really be making a fool out of yourself.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
yes, it'll probably be at one of those indoor climbing gyms, I don't think there are any outdoor clubs around here. And yes I do want to get to know this girl, it's a date afterall, not a fvck session (though the date might have some of that aftereverywomanshero said:
).No, I won't act like some expert idiot, I'll be truthful to her that I've never went, I doubt she'll mind (she might even like showing me something new).Huffman said: