"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Anyone from VA, How is sarging in Fairfax, VA ?

mackdaddy27

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I may have to move to Fairfax, VA due to work reasons..

Im going to cry, having been in NY state for years now and easist place to sarge with so many people and now going to a city of 20,000. White Plains NY has 250,000 people


I hear that it is very close to the washington Metro Area, can anyone elaborate?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DonJoseCantosie

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I can elaborate. Its a good area. Fairfax itself has some good bars to go to. The women are great. Arlington is good as well at Ballston and Clarendon. DC has some typical good clubs while Georgetown can seem like hell pickup wise tho.
 

SickAgain

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I stayed in Fairfax during the inauguration weekend. It's not really a happening town but DonJose is right just go around the metro DC area to find some cool spots. There was this really good Ghana Cafe over in the Adams Morgan District that was a lot of fun. But still nothing compared to the NYC nightlife.
 

hondo928

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You're like 30 minutes from DC on the metro or driving. There's also all the MD suburbs in a bout 45 minutes depending on traffic
 
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