penkitten
Master Don Juan
if so please tell me wheres the best place to visit...
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
anyone from hawaii?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
lol when you say north shore, which island are you referring to?
gio and i havent picked a honeymoon spot yet and we were thinking hawaii
however we dont know which island we would like best.
do you live there or which ones have you visited?
thanks for your help
gio and i havent picked a honeymoon spot yet and we were thinking hawaii
however we dont know which island we would like best.
do you live there or which ones have you visited?
thanks for your help
DumpaLumpagus
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I have been to Hawaii and I can tell you this, beware of the less populated beachs! One time I thought it was a good idea to boogyboard off of some desolate beach, but I later found out my grave mistake. Portuguese Man-of-Wars! They are everywhere and sting like hell! I won't tell you where I was stung for you to know how bad it hurts. Ouch.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
ty for posting that.
anything else on the same island to do fun?
anything else on the same island to do fun?