"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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anyone from hawaii?

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if so please tell me wheres the best place to visit...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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lol when you say north shore, which island are you referring to?

gio and i havent picked a honeymoon spot yet and we were thinking hawaii
however we dont know which island we would like best.

do you live there or which ones have you visited?

thanks for your help
 

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I have been to Hawaii and I can tell you this, beware of the less populated beachs! One time I thought it was a good idea to boogyboard off of some desolate beach, but I later found out my grave mistake. Portuguese Man-of-Wars! They are everywhere and sting like hell! I won't tell you where I was stung for you to know how bad it hurts. Ouch.
 

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ty for posting that.

anything else on the same island to do fun?
 
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