"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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anyone experience this?

chance

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so lately i been going to this same house for parties. a couple hours ago, i went with a female friend which who i didn't bring the other times i went. when im by myself no one really pays much attention. but when i walk in with a female everyone is all over you giving you attention. especially the girls.. it's so funny. they all jump at the sight of you with a female close by and give me a hug which i never recieved before from them. i just sit there thinking in my head... just cause i got a girl with me they do this.

i do know the story behind this but i find it funny that girls find you all of a sudden interesting because they see you with a chick but when you're alone you're nothing special. i hate that about girls. i felt like a fuking celebrity tonight. everyone would not leave me alone. i got respect from all the guys, lots of attention from the other girls. it's silly really how that works but that's women for ya.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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HandyAndy

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When one girls sees another girl showing interest in you, she begins to show interest also because she thinks you of some worth or value...I had a similar question that was answered before
 

MotownMack

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In marketing, they call this practice "prestige pricing".

When you see two items at the store, that look pretty similar, isn't there always a small part of you that thinks... Hmmm... Is this cheaper one going to end up being a total piece of junk? Or is there a reason this one is more expensive?

Same concept. Women see you with a hot girl and some of them automatically assume you must be doing something to justify it.
 
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