"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Anyone ever tried this?

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I was watching the videos from David DeAngelos seminar the other day. He had some of his friends who appearently were very good with women to come on stage and share their stories and what they did etc.

This one dude, who kinda looked like Ray Liotta ( I think his name was Rick or something) had some very interesting ideas.
He was displaying alot of authority and almost looked angry all the time in a weird way. Except for when he laughed the most horrible laugh ever..lol.

Anyway..He told that sometimes when he was sitting at the bar and if he made eyecontact with a HB at the other end of the bar, he would (after a few seconds of solid EC) point his tounge at her!! :crackup: Like we used to mock people when we were kids. All the time maintaining a straight face. I thougt that sounded awsome and I really wanna field-test it, but haven't gotten a chance yet.
Any of you guys ever tried it? Or will be willing to test it this weekend? (I'll be working)


How do you think a women would respond to that? And what would be a good way to follow up with?


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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I had that exact idea yesterday when I was picking up girls.

I decided not to do it. It was too schticky and I am too well known to do something that lame.

You will stand out if you do it but thats kind of crap you do when you are out of your area. The basis of the idea is good but you have to be a cute little boy to do it.
 

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One way to find out, right? :)

There's certain stuffs to do and not to do. I, on the other hand, am willing to test all of it. Let's just say that I gotta learn the hard way to get a better understanding of it... even if it means to humiliate myself a few times. This is my way of learning from my mistakes.
 

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I tried it on a stripper once a while back ... she stuck her tongue out back at me and smiled.

Try everything, what do you have to lose?
 

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i have done this

some chick looks like she is taking life too serious

i stick my tongue out

she will either start laughing or get mad

either way she puts on a show for me

i use it sparingly with women at parties or whatever

but at traffic lights there is always some chick posing and trying to look gangster

usually front passenger in a car full of chicks on a friday / saturday night

i got my music going i am in a good mood on my way somewhere

i look across and see some chick our eyes meet

she gives me the "i'm so cool and sexy look"

i stick my tongue out and make a comical face

she strarts yelling "OMG THAT GUY JUST STUCK HIS TONGUE OUT AT ME !!!"

her friends start looking around saying who ? where ? all excited at the drama

she yells there and points across at me sitting in my car waiting for the light to turn green

her friends look at me

i am staring straight ahead oblivious to them

like an angel i look like i could do no wrong

so her friends hit her on the arm and say "bull$hit"

she is indignant and desperate to prove she is not a liar

the look on her face now is PRICELESS

by now he friends are bored of my statue like performance of a waiting motorist

as the light turns green i glance in her direction and grin

maybe wave to let her know i won


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**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Lost In Translation
i have done this

some chick looks like she is taking life too serious

i stick my tongue out

she will either start laughing or get mad

either way she puts on a show for me

i use it sparingly with women at parties or whatever

but at traffic lights there is always some chick posing and trying to look gangster

usually front passenger in a car full of chicks on a friday / saturday night

i got my music going i am in a good mood on my way somewhere

i look across and see some chick our eyes meet

she gives me the "i'm so cool and sexy look"

i stick my tongue out and make a comical face

she strarts yelling "OMG THAT GUY JUST STUCK HIS TONGUE OUT AT ME !!!"

her friends start looking around saying who ? where ? all excited at the drama

she yells there and points across at me sitting in my car waiting for the light to turn green

her friends look at me

i am staring straight ahead oblivious to them

like an angel i look like i could do no wrong

so her friends hit her on the arm and say "bull$hit"

she is indignant and desperate to prove she is not a liar

the look on her face now is PRICELESS

by now he friends are bored of my statue like performance of a waiting motorist

as the light turns green i glance in her direction and grin

maybe wave to let her know i won


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
HAHA :D
 

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Originally posted by MacDiddy
Yes... this has been field tested many times and its Gold!!
Care to elaborate? What kind of responses does it get? In theory it seems awsome. If a chick doesn't find it funny or humorous at all, she's not anyone I'd like to get to know better atleast...

I'll field test it as soon as i get a chance, but I have my exam-period atm. :(
 

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Your kidding me right?

Anyway a giggle or a smile is the most common response. If they are already smiliing, they might even poke back or give you that ewwww sort of look in jest...

Try it during your exams.. There will be chicks that look up in a moment of thought. and BANG give'em a poke of your tongue..
 

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Hehe I'll do that if the opportunity present itself. I'll try different variations and see what gets the best responses.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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