"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Anyone ever date a Russian?

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I just started reading this forum and the articles on this site after getting fed up with having no action and no dates for almost 3 years. It's a hard road ahead of me if I want to get to a point where approaching women comes easy. I think I'm pretty good looking, have a good sense of humor, etc., but I just don't know the rules of the game. Anyway, I digress.

I've been talking some with a Russian girl in my class but can't get a good read on her. Normally I can tell if a girl is single or not but with this girl I have no idea. I don't necessarily want to lump people into categories but has anyone here ever dated any Russians and know anything about their general social characteristics, e.g. do they play hard to get, are they slow to warm up to you, etc?

I'm overanalyzing, I know, but we're lab partners and I don't want to screw up and make things awkward for the rest of the semester...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Russian chicks are like hurricanes. When they come they are wild and wet - when they leave they take your house and your car.
 
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when they love you they really love you and care
when they hate you they want nothing else than have you dead : )
trust me im russian
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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bolannbowie said:
Maybe I should steer clear, huh? She is so hot though...
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You shouldn't avoid someone just because of their nationality.
 
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Leporello said:
You shouldn't avoid someone just because of their nationality.
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I'll have to disagree with that based on personal experience. While fully acknowledging that you can't put someone in a category based solely on nationality, I think broad generalizations can be useful in personal life depending on the situation. For instance, one unnamed nationality I will never date again because I can do without the crap I dealt with before. Even though I realize they're not all the same, in general they share a lot of traits just by virtue of growing up in the same society. I have no beef with them but I want to avoid trouble.

But dang, you guys are making Russian girls sound like the forbidden fruit.
 
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MacAvoy said:
Just treat them like any other women, attraction is attraction no matter what.
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not it's not. people are attracted to different things. To the OP the most important thing you can do is relate to her.
 
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I had a fling with a chick from the Ukraine...she wasn't as uptight as most American girls I've met, more casual attitude about sex...

Don't challenge her to a vodka drinking contest though, the stereotype is there for a reason...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I have fvcked a few ukrainian girls and I fvcked a Lithuanian girl off the boat. Woman are the same. They are all wired the same. They have the same likes and dislikes. Pu$$y is Pu$$y. If your good with american woman your going to be good with russian woman.

Me personally I am from Chicago and have seen girls from Russia or the former soviet uniion. To me polish girls are hotter at least here in CHicago.
 
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just ask her out, **** her, then throw her in a ditch...hahaah jk

***** is *****, they're all the same.
 
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Anybody actually dated a girl in the Former Soviet Union? I didn't think so. End of discussion.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Anybody actually dated a girl in the Former Soviet Union? I didn't think so. End of discussion.
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It's not the "Former Soviet Union" It's RUSSIA. I've had PLENTY of experience with Russian women, as well as did relatives of mine. One of the situations worked out well, while the one my father married, walked out on his sorry ass.

Just 'cause YOU don't have experience, doesn't mean everybody else is like you.:kick:
 
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ChrizZ said:
Russian chicks are like hurricanes. When they come they are wild and wet - when they leave they take your house and your car.
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Super agree rigth there,happend too my dad 2 times. Russian woman is the last I will pick.
 
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Jeez, guys, this thread has definitely reached junior high school level now..

Right now my boss is breathing down my neck, will comment later in the day.
 
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Just hooked up with one a couple days ago. Great in bed, fun, very straight up. No expectations, no pressure. I'm considering dating her, and that is saying alot for me. Maybe I just found a good one. I'll also note that she said she doesnt identify with russians, and has no more russian friends.

Also important. Russian women are not religious, so no hang ups about sex. You can be very straight forward.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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