"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Anyone ever been in a threesome before?

eaglez1177

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Hey everyone, I was just curious if any of you would like to share your experiences with being in a threesome. What was it like? How did you manage to get two girls together into a threesome with you?'

The reason why Im asking is cuz my best friend managed to get into a threesome with these two girls last night at a party lol. One of them was decent looking and the other was mad hot! I have a gf, so theres really no chance I would be able to get into a threesome with another girl, but regardless, I wanna hear some of your stories (for those of you who have managed or know someone who managed to pull this off)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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librito

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threesomes are the key to heaven...
"no man shou see heaven without first experiencing a threesome".
my theory with threesomes is that the girls plan to find a guy to make it happen ahead of time and all you have to do is get to meet one of them and make her like you, and the other one will follow.
for guys, it is something very difficult to plan unless you are a master pua. but, if you are in the right place with the right kind of girls it will happen cause thats what they are looking for anyways.
 

eaglez1177

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So wait, your saying that girls actually PLAN on getting into a threesome with some guy?
 

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Well i've never had one but my friend has. And it's weird because he's not really great looking. But the two chicks he got with were gorgeous and had amazing bodies. They all went down on each other at one point or another and ****ed. It amazed me. The thing that was crazy was that earlier that evening he came up to me saying something was gonna happen with the three of them. And he was right! He like became my hero after that. I guess it was all in the way he talked to them. Also, he tends to try and show off in front of people.
 

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I've never, but I know two people who have.

One was foreign and he says 'they liked his accent' lol. Not sure exactly what happened. Never asked into it.

Another one was out, went back with two girls to their flat, started 'I have never', he said 'I have never made out in a threesome', they started making out........................ etc.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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AAAgent

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my friend has been in one with two strangers that after a few weeks of talking he got them together. He told me its every guys fantasy but when you get to the grind its ALOT of work.

He's in a relationship right now with two best friends and on average once a month he'll get them both at the same time.

He explained the reasoning behind it being alot of work.

You need to satisfy two women while only holding one load. You can't bust first because then u'll leave the other one hanging or make the other one jealous. Apparently having two girls in love with one guy in a threesome is alot harder since the girls mainly want the guy so its harder to get much foreplay out of them with each other than it is for two girls only in it for the 3some.

The girls in it for the 3some from what i've been told are more willing to have foreplay with each other which makes it easier for the male.

i'd still want to try one even if id be all sweaty afterwards.
 

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I've done it. It usually happens more with girls who are down before you say anything. It's close to impossible to talk a girl into it that isn't into that sort of thing. And having a girlfriend doesn't disclude you from the fun. A lot of girls, especially in the college years, are curious. Just bring it up during crazy sex when hormones are flying all over the place.
 

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I have been in a few MFF and once I was in a MFFF 4-some. It was fun but the logistics were sort of troubling. In the end I would have rather been with the same girls one at a time.

If they had bi tendencies or were into each other then I can see how it would be better but at most points it was sort of like a very pleasant version of being fed to sharks.
 

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All depends, like sex with one girl - on how bad she/they wants it.


One of my friends had to work his ass of - got a hotel, booze, cheated at cards, so he could **** two young sluts.

the other one didn't have to do ****, just showed up with his ****.

make it about the girls enjoying it, and you'll be fine.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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bigjohnson

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Amazing said:
All depends, like sex with one girl - on how bad she/they wants it.
The 3somes were manageable but I'd still have rather had the same girls separately at different times. The 4some was really out of control, these were 19-22 year old chicks and I was 42 at the time. It was impossible to keep everyone busy , but I guess with practice it might be better.

I'd still rather have had them one at a time.
 

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bigjohnson said:
The 3somes were manageable but I'd still have rather had the same girls separately at different times. The 4some was really out of control, these were 19-22 year old chicks and I was 42 at the time. It was impossible to keep everyone busy , but I guess with practice it might be better.

I'd still rather have had them one at a time.
Out curiosity, how did you pull that one off? Right place at the right time?
 

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I had one. I was about to have sex with one of my semi-regulars and her friend was over. She must of realized we were gone and came knocking on my bedroom door. She came in and asked if she could join. It was going great until I stuck my d1ck in her friend and she took off with my blanket wrapped around her. She runs over to the gay guys apartment next door where one of my regulars just happened to be. Yeah...sh1t hit the fan! That's the great thing and the bad thing about working at Cedar Point, everybody knows each other.
 
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