"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Anyone ever bagged a girl after being put in the Friend Zone?

Didactic

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Here's the deal. I knew this girl for a couple of years, but never really got anywhere with her. Mostly because I was a dope and at the time, I didnt know how to make her want me.
I'm pretty deeply entrenched in the friend zone, but I'm going to try the seduction methods to see if they would work on her. Has anyone ever turned a friend into an F.B?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Big Eee Zee

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I turned a friend into a long term relationship. still going, and we are both deeply enamored with each other.

I never asked her out, I was just her friend. Eventually, she got jealous of me hitting on other girls. and she made it obvious she liked me. so I went for it.

Having an LTR with a friend is really nice. You already like spending time with that person.
 

OneArmDeeJay

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Originally posted by Didactic
Here's the deal. I knew this girl for a couple of years, but never really got anywhere with her. Mostly because I was a dope and at the time, I didnt know how to make her want me.
I'm pretty deeply entrenched in the friend zone, but I'm going to try the seduction methods to see if they would work on her. Has anyone ever turned a friend into an F.B?
Read this thread http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?threadid=43174

It will answer all your questions about this subject.
 

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It can be done

Yeah I have done it several times. But thing is I never was "Friends" to begin with, they never rejected me, or said those 4 dreaded words "Let's just be friends".

They were situations where there simply was no chemistry at first, and then for whatever reason, personality growth/change, what have you the spark gets ignited later down the line.

I recommend instead of using any techniques on this girl, you test the waters first by conveying a sexual vibe(sexual state a la gunwitch). Hopefully she is intuitive enough to pick upo on it, BE SUBTLE at first. Eye contact, body language, etc.

This is a SAFE way to approach this situation. Communicate this way, and then if this test goes well continue on with what ever else comrpises your own personal game style.
 

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I met this girl who showed a lot of interest but ended up rejecting my advances and referred to me as her "friend" when we went out alone.

So I cut the night short and when she asked me to come around some time to her place (to watch a movie "as friends"), I told her I wouldnt and that I have enough friends and dont need another one. She was all upset and tried really hard to salavage the friendship to which I responded with a slightly gentler version of "fvck off"

She then invited me out a few weeks later and I took her back home afterwards and ****ed her until she was too sore to continue. The next day she called me expecting a relationship with me

I wasn't gentle that time when I said "fvck off"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I've had sex with quite a few girls who were just friends...but as far as get into a relationship...nope. Mainly cause they know me too well.
 

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i had a ljbf thing going on. i talked to her about girls views on guys and vice versa. we were really good friends. one day we just made out. and then we were back to friends. have fun with that.
 
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