"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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anyone else think like this?

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I don't have any respect for girls, I don't care about there feelings, they are lesser people to me, I don't understand why men get so nervous around them when men are dominate and stronger, they are just pieces of **** meat, I work the game showing no emotion and **** them and then there gone from my life, there only purpose is to please me.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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haha, that's hardcore man- but cool mindset to have against most girls
 

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I know some people will come and post the usual politically correct bs "that is wrong, you are an animal" or some other stuff like that.

but then again what kind of men are women attracted to? YOU GUESSED IT, THE ONES WITH THE JERK ATTITUDE!

the men that arent lovesick puppys for a girl, the ones that don't treat them like if they were queens, the men with an "edge," the men with a dangerous side. Next time you think your attitude towards women is wrong, think again. This attitude is what they're attracted to. If you don't think so ask all the hopeless nice guys who wished they had the hot girl that goes out with the guy with the "jerk attitude."

Note that I call it jerk attitude just cause it is easier to recognize, but in reality it is the attitude that we don't have to lose our dignity for them.
 

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Originally posted by Agressor
I don't have any respect for girls, I don't care about there feelings, they are lesser people to me, I don't understand why men get so nervous around them when men are dominate and stronger, they are just pieces of **** meat, I work the game showing no emotion and **** them and then there gone from my life, there only purpose is to please me.
Maybe you'd be happier sleeping with men.:p

Dood..calm down and have a beer.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Like 99% of the time..yes.
 

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If you truly believe that women are so below you then what motivates you to date?
 

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by ed3000
my own experiences tell me the opposite. Most hot girls I know go for the non-nice guys. Women like men with an EDGE not love sick puppies who are willing to treat them like queens and do everything for them.
F*ck whatever 'EDGE' you are talking about bud.

Attraction is based on interest level. If the chic's IL is high enough, you can do pretty much anything short of being a sappy AFC.

Been there done that, over and over again. Did strict dating using the DJB and mASF tips..even freelanced..even experimented doing AFC tendencies doing cold PUs..
I've had success as a jerk..success as an AFC...success as a DJ.

And in the end...regardless of how you act, if the chic doesn't like you THERE IS NO AMOUNT OF EDGE that will attract her to you.

If SHE DOES DIG YOU, all you pretty much have to do is shut up, don't say anything stupid, and then let her come to you...f*ck the snares, ss patterns, and the blah.

Think about it...if a 300lb chic wants your nuts..no amount of C/F, seduction patterns, KINO, etc will make you attracted to her.
 

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Originally posted by ed3000
my own experiences tell me the opposite. Most hot girls I know go for the non-nice guys. Women like men with an EDGE not love sick puppies who are willing to treat them like queens and do everything for them.
F*ck whatever 'EDGE' you are talking about bud.

Attraction is based on interest level. If the chic's IL is high enough, you can do pretty much anything short of being a sappy AFC.

Been there done that, over and over again. Did strict dating using the DJB and mASF tips..even freelanced..even experimented doing AFC tendencies doing cold PUs..
I've had success as a jerk..success as an AFC...success as a DJ.

And in the end...regardless of how you act, if the chic doesn't like you THERE IS NO AMOUNT OF EDGE that will attract her to you.

If SHE DOES DIG YOU, all you pretty much have to do is shut up, don't say anything stupid, and then let her come to you...f*ck the snares, ss patterns, and the blah.

Think about it...if a 300lb chic wants your nuts..no amount of C/F, seduction patterns, KINO, etc will make you attracted to her.
 

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Originally posted by ed3000
my own experiences tell me the opposite. Most hot girls I know go for the non-nice guys. Women like men with an EDGE not love sick puppies who are willing to treat them like queens and do everything for them.
F*ck whatever 'EDGE' you are talking about bud.

Attraction is based on interest level. If the chic's IL is high enough, you can do pretty much anything short of being a sappy AFC.

Been there done that, over and over again. Did strict dating using the DJB and mASF tips..even freelanced..even experimented doing AFC tendencies doing cold PUs..
I've had success as a jerk..success as an AFC...success as a DJ.

And in the end...regardless of how you act, if the chic doesn't like you THERE IS NO AMOUNT OF EDGE that will attract her to you.

If SHE DOES DIG YOU, all you pretty much have to do is shut up, don't say anything stupid, and then let her come to you...f*ck the snares, ss patterns, and the blah.

Think about it...if a 300lb chic wants your nuts..no amount of C/F, seduction patterns, KINO, etc will make you attracted to her.
 

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holy **** man. how can anyone triple post?? hahaha

i think people who think like this (women are dogs attitude)
most probably are bitter about some woman figure in their lives, be it a mother, or an exgirlfriend.

because perhaps some have been let down badly, and therefore feel that women just aint worth it, they choose to see women as mere sexual objects.

right now, i think like this some of the time, usually when i'm feeling bitter.

damn the ex girlfriend. :D
 

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HYPNOTIQUE

I see where you are coming from Hypnotique but it doesn't explain it fully. The IL, where does it come from in the first place?

What I am getting at is, we ALL see ugly big bastards getting a chick or nerdy dudes etc. The bloke exudes confidence and gets the IL of the chick in the first instance. I know what you are saying about treating them all differently and achieving the same stats.

over the top example. A very vulnerable girl hits the city and is screaming out for a daddy figure. 1. She runs into a Pimp, he gives her the lovin she requires and sells her ass for money. 2. A social worker AFC or even average guy finds her, helps her, she does okay, gets stable, gets boyfriend and lives an average life. SAME GIRL, different outcome because of the attitude of the man who met her. Two totally different scenarios.

The Pimp could use, daddy sugar, abuse, love or any combination but his intent is different.

In short, the unnatractive guy with the chicks aint stirring up IL on looks, its his intent that the woman can feel. So, I agree and disagree at the same time. The major thing I agree with is that you cannot "get" and edge, not the way these guys are trying to. But, if they change their attitude honestly, they may develop that edge over time. The main problem here is that most of the guys intend remaining AFC with little DJ tricks. IT WILL NOT WORK.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Haha...

And guys are only good for pleasing us CHICKS!...

So, eh...big whoop...what's anybody gonna do about it...?

Both genders can think and say the exact same thing -- they're just words and thoughts resulting in whatever emotional ruckus you're feeling inside...

But it'll never prove anything relevant...
 

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Originally posted by luv_ya_amj
Haha...

And guys are only good for pleasing us CHICKS!...

So, eh...big whoop...what's anybody gonna do about it...?

Both genders can think and say the exact same thing -- they're just words and thoughts resulting in whatever emotional ruckus you're feeling inside...

But it'll never prove anything relevant...
There is no equality between males and females, Males are dominant, don't bother with your febble attempts to convince me that we are equal, or women see men the same way as i see women. Put out, or get out.
 

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Originally posted by Agressor
There is no equality between males and females, Males are dominant, don't bother with your febble attempts to convince me that we are equal, or women see men the same way as i see women. Put out, or get out.
You have a personality disorder, I highly recommend you get yourself checked out. For your own sake and others.
 
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