"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Anyone else think blonde women are the most overrated thing in the world?

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I never understood most mens obession with blondes.

They all look alike and platinum blonde hair looks stupid.

A girl actually loses points with me if she is a blonde.

Anyone else agree?

Dark haired women are so much better looking. When I see a brunette I think of class and intelligence. Blondes look cheesy.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I totally agree. I was watching this show on MTV today, and apparently there are no Hawaiians in Hawaii, just blonde white girls.
 
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Stuka...you're soOo CuTe!! I just wanna hug you, pinch your cheeks and kiss you! :yes:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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They wouldn't be overrated if they were sucking your d ick simple as that. It doesnt matter pink,red,black, and blond.
 
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i don't really have a preference. i've seen many hot blondes, many hot brunettes, many hot girls with black hair, a few hot ones with red hair.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"De gustibus non est disputandum", a latin phrase meaning that there is not to be discussion regarding tastes. Everyone has different tastes and like different things.

Therefore: pointless thread.
 
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stuka1939 said:
Piss off. Shouldn't you be trolling the high school discussion board?

Leave this section to the mature adults.
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Mature adult? So that's what you are? Everyday you make a new thread about some looks-related topic. How is that mature?

I think threads like these are very immature and narrow-minded. When are you going to stop over-analyzing and nitpicking about people's looks?

I mean seriously, who really cares about the hair color of different women. I mean who even takes time to notice these things. No wonder some people will eternally be stuck. Most TV, radio, and mainstream media is trash. Go out and live your life. It's really pointless sitting here discussing these topics. Seriously, what do you expect to get out of this discussion? All you'll get is opinions, some for and some against. And so what's the end result? If you're not attracted to blonde women then don't go for them. What really is your point? You live in America right...you know there's something called freedom, right?
 
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These threads are both annoying and amusing at the same time. It's like a kid that never shut up.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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L B said:
These threads are both annoying and amusing at the same time. It's like a kid that never shut up.
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thats not what your mother told me last night :crackup: :moon:
 
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stuka1939 said:
Piss off. Shouldn't you be trolling the high school discussion board?

Leave this section to the mature adults.
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Leave the "Anything Else" section for mature adults?

Arn't you a 31 year old virgin living with your parents? Go out and get a life instead of posting on a forum. Your 31, you should have a career and a family to take care of, not posting on a seduction website about how looks matter and how blondes are overrated.
 
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stuka1939 said:
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A girl actually loses points with me if she is a blonde.

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I doubt they're losing much sleep over a guy they're not interested ins opinion.


When you're a virgin, it's best not to be choosy.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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